I've been out of the dating scene for a few years.

I met this girl on Tinder. We're not exclusive, so there's obviously no moral issues with her still using Tinder. I'm more curious what that means about how she views me and how I should proceed?

We spent a few weekends together and recently a weekend getaway to another city. She was very loving on it, very into me, kissing, sex, and affection. And we're going to spend this weekend together again.

But I still see that she uses Tinder. I logged in and looked to see if her distance changed, because I want to see where I stand in this.

Now the right thing to do would be for me to use the app too and to date others. But I'm not really into doing that. I don't like talking and seeing more than 1 person at once. Especially since I'm seeing this girl every weekend and have no time to date someone else.

Thoughts? I haven't used apps long, and I'm sure this is pretty common behavior by her. But I don't want to keep seeing someone who sees me as an option, or at least I don't want to let myself become more emotionally invested in someone who see me as an option.

I see the irony in looking for a relationship on apps. But it worked for me before, and worked for friends.