I think the idea of just introducing yourself and asking for a number is just dumb. [recovered]

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-04-10T08:21:33+00:00

Agree, but asking questions also takes value from girls, so better to say statements, or questions that sound and feel like statements.

You should establish why you are there to get to know each other and as soon as she agrees to meet you then make statements, rather than questions.

So rather than asking “how are you?/whats up?”

It’s better to say for examples: “You look like someone just stole and ate your sandwich when you weren’t looking” or “Looks like you just won’t the lottery ticket because girl you are radiant”

Or rather than asking “what are you up to today?” it’s better to say: “Let me guess, you are buying shoes today”

Doesn’t matter if you are right in your assumption or not because it’s irrelevant.

In other words, assume things about her, make statements, accuse her playfully of absurd things,… Don’t seek a reply (value seeking), just make statements (giving value).

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-04-10T02:51:47+00:00

I have never heard anyone give that advice.

atomant88 · 2022-04-10T03:56:51+00:00

i dont think anyone ever said you should not try to build intimacy before asking for her number.

it is all sales. whats wrong with sales? fuck your fear. go find a connection. sales are made when you find someone who has been looking for what you're selling. if you're not confident someone is buying; what are you doing? improve your product

_526 · 2022-04-10T01:03:07+00:00

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Sandvicheater · 2022-04-10T02:21:32+00:00

Pursuing a girl is identical to pursing that sale from a customer. You know those guys who could sell ice to Eskimos? Well they're the averaging looking dudes who seem to be landing 9/10s by some miracle.

Stujitsu2 · 2022-04-10T00:58:55+00:00

I think there is a difference between ideal and the situation. Ideally you may chat and flirt for 30 minutes but not all situations are conducive to this. Taking action is always better than not.

2022-04-10T02:29:56+00:00

Yeah at the end of the day you want to see if theyre someone you even want to fuck around with too. Its a two way thing and you'll get a better feel if you have a conversation with them first

Title	I think the idea of just introducing yourself and asking for a number is just dumb. [recovered]
Author	_526 [recovered]
Upvotes	42
Comments	16
Date	April 10, 2022 12:36 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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