I’m really confused with this sub Do yall only want to hear what men gotta say? [recovered]

LordCarnifex · 2022-04-01T20:19:56+00:00

The mistake with women offering a bunch of advice in a sub like this is that they'll often offer answers they wish were true instead of what is actually true. I'll listen to a woman give me a laundry list of qualities they want in a guy and then ask them if the last 5 dudes came close to anything on that list -- crickets. I don't ask homebuyers for advice on selling homes, I ask successful realtors. I don't ask plaintiffs how to get their business, I ask successful lawyers what they do to attract clientele. Same logic.

Grappleheart · 2022-04-01T19:38:59+00:00

I think this is a very simplistic take. I think the real problem is sometimes women make comments about situations and things they have no experience with. Like most of the posts here are men trying to get women. Has a woman every had to flirt with a girl get her number and hopefully get a response? No so the advice they give might be inaccurate hence the down voting.

This is just a theory. But I am open to anything.

jazilli · 2022-04-01T20:48:11+00:00

You don't ask a pitcher how to hit his fastball. You ask a batter. Straight women never have to seduce other women, so they don't give good advice most of the time on this subject.

Andress1 · 2022-04-01T21:02:17+00:00

Women underestimate how brutal the dating experience is for a man in comparison to a woman so they mostly give bad advice.

An average woman can go on a different first date every single day of a year with a new guy with no effort while an average guy would be pretty good at dating if he managed 1 date per week.

Casanova-Quinn · 2022-04-01T21:58:47+00:00

Because 99% of women have no "game".

Women just have to 1) show up 2) look good 3) act normal 4) let the man lead

The dating world doesn't work that way for men.

RSNK10 · 2022-04-01T20:08:36+00:00

Because we communicate differently. It’s really that simple. There is to a degree some anti-women sentiment, but you have to acknowledge this is a sub full of frustrated dudes lol. I think there is room for a women’s advice, but you have to understand that the female perspective of seduction is extremely skewed because a lot of women either aren’t sure what they want or they already get a lot of attention. Why would a guy take advice on how to get female attention from someone who receives male attention? It’s completely different.

Try making more posts about female seduction for the guys perspective on it. Maybe that will help

driller20 · 2022-04-01T21:44:02+00:00

You have to think more, make the question in your head and wait. Think logical why would that happen, without judging.

mightymite88 · 2022-04-01T22:06:03+00:00

Nah I'm nonbinary, game is for everyone

DanielFromCucked · 2022-04-01T22:19:03+00:00

If you need it spelled out why a women shouldn't be posting in a sub about male dating strategies you're either trolling or a complete retard

wordypropensity518 · 2022-04-01T22:40:34+00:00

Sounds like you're looking for an affirmation and not a conversation.

def___real · 2022-04-01T23:09:58+00:00

I feel your frustration with everyone’s negativity over your input. I feel like the community shouldn’t down vote a women’s opinion and appreciate her input but also I agree on the guy’s perspective that mostly men with experience tend to give the best advice.

Billyjeanisntmylover · 2022-04-01T23:18:47+00:00

Tell us how to seduce a women

Title	I’m really confused with this sub Do yall only want to hear what men gotta say? [recovered]
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Date	April 1, 2022 7:35 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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