I do think "looks" is pretty much everything. am i wrong ?

recyclablebanthas · 2022-03-18T00:29:36+00:00

This post violates Rule 7 regarding physical appearance.

Kindly read the rules and pinned post at the top of the sub next time, before posting or commenting. If you cannot bother to do this minimum amount of work, then you're in the wrong sub.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-03-14T16:40:59+00:00

Social situations require social skills.

You can be good looking but when you are in front of a woman, and your mind goes blank, or your are afraid to touch her, or being called a pervert, or when you only say boring shit and you can feel that the girl is getting bored of you even if you are good looking, then you know you are still fucked and will never get any success.

Looks make the initial approach easy, but after that you require social skills, and confidence.

Important-Quote9544 · 2022-03-14T07:23:55+00:00

You are right.

No amount of game will help an ugly dude or avg dude get the amount of pussy a good looking dude with no game will get.

In fact with social media and dating apps becoming more popular, looks are getting way more important.

Just go on TikTok, all the dudes getting thirsted all have something in common. Good looks. They are also not even celebrities just regular guys but they have the looks, and look at the comments. Just girls going crazy for them.

Low body fat is key, jaw is key.

No amount of social skills, confidence, personality, etc will make you her type

TooMuchJibberish · 2022-03-14T07:45:22+00:00

I think I agree with you OP

Sweeter-QueQue · 2022-03-14T10:02:48+00:00

I would have thoroughly disagreed few years ago, but honestly... yeah. It pans out.

It's embarassing to admit. I used to date average and not goodlooking guys, as I was basing it all on personality and how great it is. But since then I came to the conclusion that hot or not, people are still people personality-wise. So if I can get that same level of great personality but wrapped in a hot look... i think i'm gonna go for that. As superficial and shitty as it sounds.

Elbynerual · 2022-03-14T07:35:14+00:00

Nope. 100% wrong. I'm totally average looking and the peak of my sexual life was when I was 30-60 pounds overweight. I dated or had sex with a steady stream of 8-10s, about one every two months - for three years.

Stop being lazy and put in the work.

Chicagoj1563 · 2022-03-14T18:59:39+00:00

There is a post like this every 1-2 weeks. The most credible people I've seen that were actually going out and doing thousands of approaches, almost universally agree that it's mostly male behaviors that generate attraction. I've been a good looking guy most of my life and for me looks is great for inner confidence and getting initial attention from women. But, that's about it. That said, I work on my look every week. Sure, it matters. But, its behaviors that matter most, by far.

If your results aren't good it's most likely your game that's off, not your looks.

5_7pickup · 2022-03-14T08:31:57+00:00

Only blackpill losers think looks is everything.

Do looks matter? Of course. But dating is a multivariable equation. Looks is one of the variables.

How much does each variable matter? That depends on the girl. Some girls care more about looks, some about height, some about money, some about charisma, some about humor, personality, confidence, etc. you get the point.

Questions like these posts are… impractical.

The best thing to do is to improve in all aspects of dating: looks, game, personality, money, status, career, etc.

mightymite88 · 2022-03-15T08:12:00+00:00

You're wrong

Title	I do think "looks" is pretty much everything. am i wrong ?
Author	rararoror
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Date	March 14, 2022 7:16 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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