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[–]MrLovingTiger 126 points127 points128 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Walk up to her and tell her you think she's cute. Like a confident motherfucker 💪
[–]doreenwalksdogs 30 points31 points32 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
I Will compliment her😳!
[–]MrLovingTiger 24 points25 points26 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
And then talk a bit and ask if she wants to grab a coffee with you right now and continue the conversation.
If she says she can't, ask for the phone number and schedule something later
[–]doreenwalksdogs 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yeah I will do something like that :D
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[–]doreenwalksdogs 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Okay cool! I will look at that and thank you!
[–]24HoursADais 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Try to actually do it! Don't waste this opportunity
[–]BonsaiDiver 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Eye contact like that is definitely an invitation to come over and say "hello." As the initiator of the conversation it will be up to you to carry the conversation, so have something to talk about besides "nice day today isn't it?"
Good Luck!
[–]doreenwalksdogs 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The grass is green?
[–]justanobodyreallyyy 31 points32 points33 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
As a woman I do this a lot because I admire the person and also because I wish they would talk to me and of course being caught looking is embarrassing since you may not feel that way or even think I’m a creep. But if you’ve caught me enough times and I still look it’s because I really want you to initiate.
[–]IndeedTim19 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Hey this exact same thing happened to me in class anyways I initiated the conversation and the girl is now like really sweet to me but only when we meet as soon as we go to our homes she won’t reply on time and it’s always me who initiates the conversations which eventually dies because of her dry replies
[–]justanobodyreallyyy 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think it’s good you initiated because if you didn’t then none of that would ever happen and in reality we women are also hoping for something— anything to happen if onlyyy you’d initiate. We secretly wish and crave it but the only thing we can do are to drop those little hints.
As for the girl I think her being sweet is an indication that she definitely enjoys your company and that change in attitude after you approached her also shows that she was holding back in terms of affection and that she permits to getting to know each other basically that you aren’t strangers anymore and once you’ve established that you can go anywhere but it takes building up to.
With regards to her being dry when you’re texting it could just be that she has different communication habits, attachment style or love language. Maybe she’s the type to want to spend time together physically than through messages. So you should also give her space but if you’re really curious then try to observe how she acts when you’re together if she’s still sweet but dry through text but it goes on a little longer then that means it’s just how she is but if not then I think it’s time you have the talk and clarify what the relationship is. Miscommunication is the number one relationship and opportunity killer (at least according to me).
It could also be that if you’ve been hanging out enough but you still haven’t made a move to further the relationship so she still has her walls up or maybe even try to distance herself just in case you aren’t on the same pace when it comes to wanting a relationship and she doesn’t want to get hurt.
The most important thing I can say is that women want love just as much as men and sometimes it’s not that hard to notice because the hints are there and they’re obvious. The only thing is that dating is a gamble you either find out by initiating and communicating. Sure you could get hurt from it not working out but what if it did? But because you didn’t initiate you just lost any chance you had at making something out of it. For me I’d rather find out, get hurt, get stronger then move on compared to antagonizing over “what ifs” and “we could’ve been”.
So good luck!
[–]denali_HD2020 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ask her on a date.
[–]thepro189 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Is there a reason why you wouldnt initiate in this case?
[–]justanobodyreallyyy 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Not really. I feel like if you lock eyes or you catch them looking multiple times then that’s enough indication that they want you to approach them for whatever reason they may have. I mean if they didn’t want to be approached they wouldn’t be looking because they don’t want the unnecessary attention from someone they don’t even like could be worse, a creep. To feel safe, I avoid the eyes or any interaction from other men because as a woman I have to keep my guard up from creeps. So I only look if I really want them to look back.
So initiate and observe the signs.
[–]thepro189 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I got the exact same signs from a girl but I’m confused. She looked at me a lot so I talked to her, and it was kinda awkward because I had no idea what to say and I was also nervous. She seemed positive though.
However the next day she didnt look at me again. She started to look at me again after a few days, 2 or so.
[–]jewess82 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Never avoid the eyes of other men. Masculine men stare back and if you avoid eye contact or look down first, you've lost. It's a show of strength and to look your opponent square in the eyes until they look down. Then you give them a nod. Cause they know what's up too. If you go out with a woman and she sees you avoiding eye contact with other men, or diverting your gaze first she will lose confidence in you.
[–]MO_drps_knwldg 55 points56 points57 points 4 years ago (18 children) | Copy Link
Just talk to her.
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[–]doreenwalksdogs 19 points20 points21 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Hahaha fair enough Thank you for your words
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[+]doreenwalksdogs -6 points-5 points-4 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Not “hey hey, fuck you”?
https://youtu.be/IPnTCBnn-lQ
Okay I will. I don’t think I could pull out a long or like a conversation but I could definitely talk with her a bit
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[–]doreenwalksdogs 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Also wanna ask. Is it bad if I give like a small compliment. Like your hair looks good today. Or leave it to just smal conversations now?
[–]doreenwalksdogs -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I fucking wish. I’ll see if I get more signs of interest I’ll most likely ask her out or lead up to that. But you think what I have wrote above is signs of interest? I feel like it’s either that or she’s just watching to see if I look her as it might seem creepy or rapey(new word fuck off) when I “lightly” stare at her I Dont Know?
Okay, I appreciate your responses thank you
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[–]AssertiveDude 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Same reason girls are afraid to initiate with guys
I’m not afraid.
[–]iSaucyxJugg 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I’m petrified of the hoes, I’m scared of the bad bitches. 🫣
[–]saik1511 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Especially the screaming ones
[–]LilSkills 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
What the hell?
[–]doreenwalksdogs -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah stupid fucking comment I’m blaming it on lack of sleep
[–]Srivastava123321 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Same
[–]doreenwalksdogs 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
What’s your situation?
[–]Srivastava123321 11 points12 points13 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
It just means that she finds you interesting but wont start the conversation.
[–]NattyGains4Life 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
In my experience 99% of the time they won’t start it, even if they like you
[–]Joman_Spatula 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
dumb as hell
[–]doreenwalksdogs 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good view
[–]jayjonas1996 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Are you seeing the news buddy? World is ending just talk to her
[–]Outrageous_Fill3231 11 points12 points13 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
This is a similar thing to what I’ve been experiencing recently. This girl in one of my classes always catches my eye from time to time, we’re constantly catching each other looking. The most recent occurrence was when she was walking past me to the car park and we locked eyes again, for a good 3 seconds before i chickened out and went to meet the guy I was waiting for.
It feels like she might be interested in me tbh, but she’s a little intimidating to me, which is ironic because our disposition in class is basically the same (quiet, RBF, sleepy). I recently found her Instagram and it feels like I should follow her.
[–]doreenwalksdogs 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Haha I think we are in the same situation and even though I said what I said above😂
She probably likes you. Give it a chance. It won’t hurt to flirt/chat. Just be confident and don’t stutter make it awkward. Talk to her like you freely talk to your mates. Good luck!
[–]blitzik 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Wtf? You better talk to her. She thinks you're hot. Don't follow her Instagram, just talk to her
[–]Outrageous_Fill3231 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nah, but fr???
[–]NattyGains4Life 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
Dude, literally just walk up to her, do some meaningless comment about something in your enviorment and open the conversation, introduce yourself, keep it smooth and relaxed
Try safe inconsequential small talk for around 3-4 minutes, by then you’ll get an idea of how’s the vibe with you two, wether she’s enjoying it or not
Last Saturday I went to a club, talked to some table of cute girls and the vibe was just dry, after me asking them about their uni and stuff, one worded answers, akward looks and general uneasiness, I just left
A few hours later, second girl I approached, small talk and I swear to God, INMEDIATLY her reaction is laughing, big smile, wide interested eyes, and then she grabbed me by the hand (fingers interlocked and everything) and dragged me to the bar to invite me some shots
The vibe with my two approaches was night and day
You’ll INMEDIATLY get wether she likes u or not
[–]doreenwalksdogs 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Good for you, and good advice. But can it really determine your next actions on her reactions? What if she’s shy or just really awkward herself when I have confidence so I don’t mind talking to her
[–]NattyGains4Life 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Even if they’re introverted you can still tell wether they dislike you or not
Having a bored and disinterested look ≠ being giggly, kinda nervous and not knowing what to say
If they’re introverted, they may look nervous, shy but if their vibe is “happy” you’ll be able to tell
Also, it’s actually kinda better if they’re introverted, can help you look adventurous and fun in comparison
I’m not extroverted or super fun myself, but when I’ve encountered introverted girls (that are into me) I can play the “come on! Dont be boring, trust me 😜” when it comes to dancing, drinking or any other fun activities, you’ll be the fun and outgoing one
[–]Popular-Rate3182 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
Stop being nervous and approach. I’ve been rejected so much now so it doesn’t bother me, it can be for anything. Maybe she has a boyfriend (if she is decent, very likely anyways since she’s a girl), maybe you’re too tall or too short, who knows? You cannot so don’t worry and try at least.
[–]doreenwalksdogs 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
I’m tall. She is extremely attractive. I didn’t really want to come of nervous or like a pussy I guess I was just wondering what Situation and what you guys have to say.
[–]Popular-Rate3182 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
She’s not the only girl out there. She is extremely attractive, but that’s all you know? Is she even cool to be around or a complete drama queen with narcissistic tendencies? We need to be more selective, of course beautiful women are going to expect most guys to be nervous but you need to STAND OUT. Being confident (work on yourself) in the beginning works since most guys play it safe.
[–]doreenwalksdogs 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Yeah I’m not being that guy, I don’t like her just for her looks. And she isn’t a complete bitch.
[–]Popular-Rate3182 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
I’m exaggerating to prove a point, remember that. We gotta stop putting them on pedestals because they turn into little kids sometimes and just do dumb stuff
[–]doreenwalksdogs 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Yeah i think I get what u mean. After past experiences this time I would be much smarter about it. I won’t hang around if it’s bad and I’ll make sure it’s full of communication and understanding what we both want etc. if that’s what u mean
[–]Popular-Rate3182 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Pretty much just keep your heart close to your chest and observe and see what happens. Women like a challenge so try not to give her too much validation which is what most guys do if she’s even above a decent 7
[–]doreenwalksdogs 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Good point
[–]Popular-Rate3182 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Not trying to be negative or anything I’m just trying to be realistic, women are basically kids with banging bodies. I think of myself as also a kid cuz i get bored asf too. It’s hard to not fall IN LOVE but it’s so much fun at the same time. Just have fun but at the same time learn from your mistakes, life is too short to worry!
Yes I meant good point! Wasn’t saying it in a dull tone!
[–]dionysus1967 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Either she likes you, or she hates you .
This one does
Second
[–]Billyjeanisntmylover 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Let your nuts hang.
[–]always_stay_activ3 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just go there say hi and introduce yourself then based on her response you go with a compliment but don’t overdo
[–]Educational_Award612 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Dude than what are you waiting for ask her out like s confident man
I will. I will talk and flirt a little before it
[–]south_chocolate1 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ask to chill or go somewhere u definitely gone fuck
[–]jjboy91 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It doesn't mean anything
Haha
[–]jewess82 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
If you don't act on this, she will lose interest. It can be a test to see if you approach, do something that piques her interest, etc.
Getting caught staring is never good, unless you take action.
Your chances are getting more and more slim. Act, or watch her exchange glances with another dude, never looking in your direction again.
Yeah true. How do you think is the best way to act now? Compliment conversation etc wise?
[–]jewess82 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't act. Ask her "whatcha looking at" in a joking way next time. Then tell her you'd like to be looking at her with a drink in her hand and mention bar, and time see if she is avail. Go from there.
[–]norwegiandoggo 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Why would you ask for our thoughts when you already know what we will say, and you have already said you won't believe us if we say that
Haha yeah ig. I Dont Know . You think she likes me?
[–]norwegiandoggo 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes
[–]oussamabouaoued 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
if i were ur friend i would've probably slapped the shit oit of u...quit being a bitch and go talk to her, jeez man
Understood
[–]Key-Cheesecake-2050 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That only means she’s shy as fuck
She’s shy and theres no emotion towards me or she likes me and she’s shy?
I live in Australia. We don’t have fbi.
[–]Calamity__Bane 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Smile and wave next time.
[–]snappop69 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Next time you catch her looking at you look directly at her and flash a big confident smile and see how she reacts.
[–]doreenwalksdogs 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
We have masks on so I guess she’s going of my eyes changing from circle to oval?
[–]snappop69 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Ha ha. Masks suck.
Yeah
[–]Sendthatin 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Bro one time i started talking to this girl at a school party and she said why you never talked to me before you saw me looking at you. 10 yrs later we’re married.
Wow ahah can I ask for the story?
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