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quantumactual · 2022-02-03T22:58:42+00:00

When in doubt, pull back.

JearBear_3 · 2022-02-03T21:35:34+00:00

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freespirit1963TJ · 2022-02-03T21:41:24+00:00

I've never used it, but Tinder has a reputation of being a place where you find someone to bone. Is that not true?

YoungCoconut18 · 2022-02-03T23:26:42+00:00

Fall back and let her come to you. Focus on yourself, like others are saying on here. Hit the gym, sounds cliche, but it feels good to improve yourself. Find a new hobby, for example, cooking.

TEMPLERTV · 2022-02-04T00:42:39+00:00

Don’t wave good bye. Just move on. Enjoy the moment for what it was. She had fun, you had fun. Don’t make a scene or mope about it. Just move on.

2022-02-04T08:12:45+00:00

Yeah, it's over as you didn't provide her with anything exciting for a long time, so her emotions dropped to the level of indifference. Pretty common story here. You can't take a girl on a date where "nothing happens" :)

almighty_nsa · 2022-02-04T10:43:06+00:00

If shes hot and she matched you on Tinder, just find another one. Dunno what the fuss is about. Or keep asking her out. Take your pick.

Creepyunclexd · 2022-02-04T14:02:08+00:00

Do not text her again I REPEAT DO NOT. If she texts you then make arrangement for the 3rd date and start escalating. Go for a kiss or take her to your place.

Bunny-N-Tulips · 2022-02-04T05:44:29+00:00

3 days of not texting? You’re ghosted… move on bro

xxsnowo · 2022-02-03T21:38:11+00:00

Communication will always be the most difficult thing in every relationship. So I'm gonna give you weird advice: Send her what you wrote here. Rewrite the sentences so you're not talking to her in the third person, but share how you are feeling. Make sure to not focus on blaming her or yourself, it's easy to overthink these things like the 3 days of not talking and see it as "didn't talk for 3 days = she is not interested". Ask her what she thinks, if she's still interested in planning a 3rd date, and make sure to let her know that it's alright if she is not interested. You just want to know whether that's the case or not.

Best of luck to you ! :)

daring_innovator · 2022-02-04T04:30:37+00:00

It’s your responsibility to “hit it” by at least the 2nd date and if not then it’s over - done. Every girl will pull back. She felt like you took forever to initiate sex but never did and so shes pulling back because you failed the test.

Girls want sex with the guy they’re attracted to but they won’t make the first move, that’s your job. That’s just the way it is. I’m sorry but it’s true, speaking from experience. She felt like “Why won’t he fuck me? Am I not sexy enough to him? I’m gonna go fuck Jarred instead tonight.” Don’t worry tho! Let her go! Keep grinding & eventually find her replacement. Hate it, love it. Idc. This is the TRUTH. We’re chillin here. 😎

cronasminate · 2022-02-04T12:12:11+00:00

Sorry you sound needy af. 3 days no talking and you think it's the end of the world? She probably needed to breathe. 1-2 hours to respond is how long a normal adult with a life takes to respond.

tonstermits69 · 2022-02-03T21:44:05+00:00

Yes.

Amkg2020 · 2022-02-04T01:28:06+00:00

Be more forward, like try and bang her etc if yer busy and ye clicked might aswell just try plan dates and bangs etc

bandsupjay · 2022-02-04T02:07:44+00:00

Wanna know the real answer?

2manymugs · 2022-02-04T12:30:39+00:00

Maybe she is losing interest because you haven't asked her out again. Lots of women prefer a man who takes the lead. Make a specific plan and ask her out.

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