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Reichka · 2021-12-29T01:42:13+00:00

Eventually there's nothing left to do about the problem besides take responsibility.

homelessfish22 · 2021-12-29T04:24:51+00:00

Realising that youth only comes once. One summer I ended up working in the wineyards with a lot of old men. All they talked about is how much they miss their youth.

So I got out there and just started trying. Not even with just pussy, with everything.

Equivalent_Current_3 · 2021-12-29T05:32:02+00:00

I turned 21 and realized I didn't want to be that 21 year old who has never kissed a girl so I decided to do something about it. I am now a 23 year old who has never kissed, But I have been rejected more times than most guys.

Business-Purpose-724 · 2021-12-29T07:52:48+00:00

Taking shrooms. First trip, all social anxiety wiped away, abundant self love, huge success with women.

gritedge · 2021-12-29T11:45:19+00:00

Stop overthinking, it's all in your head. Just go with the flow. Say what you feel like saying. Do what you feel like doing. If you feel like flirting with her, getting closer to her, do that. Don't be afraid of what she/others will think of you. Don't have sex as the only end goal, but just a possibility. Focus on having good time.

Canadian-Seductioner · 2021-12-28T22:17:31+00:00

Basically just having an epiphany and realizing I didn't like the person I was and that I wanted to change myself to become the person I wanted to be.

7heFr3ak · 2021-12-29T09:14:00+00:00

I had two moments, first was realizing i was a fat ugly fuck and the second was a new feeling i started craving after talking to a certain girl (wasn't love).

bacchusbunbury · 2021-12-29T08:37:08+00:00

I discarded dozens of friendships with macho sociopath men who bullied me because they thought I was a gay because of my personality/interests.

Don't be afraid to fail.

Force change upon yourself with new nouns.

bb54321 · 2021-12-29T12:11:33+00:00

After explaining a "odd" conversation I had with a couple, my brother explained that they had wanted me for something sexual. At 29 I had no clue. Sex and relationships were mostly just things in books and movies to me then, despite having friends and family in normal relationships. So like I do with anything that interests me I did research. Learning more than the textbook definition of flirting felt really strange to me. Finding out how abnormal I was in those regards made me panic a bit. I guess, much more than a bit. After some minor success, I stopped. I had to move to take care of my mom. Being a introvert I didn't have the energy to take care of someone and date at the same time. But now, after years, my creeping mortality has convinced me to try again. It still all feels so alien to me.

I also learned what ASD was. Not entirely unrelated.

Neil1398 · 2021-12-29T15:12:35+00:00

With women: got tired of seeing girls check me out clearly and not doing anything about it. For years this would happen

With life: got tired of being too routine and wanted more for myself

2021-12-30T04:12:04+00:00

For whatever reason in college I went out one night and decided to talk to women without thinking about the outcome or believing I could somehow control it. It was amazing.

u_ltramarine · 2021-12-29T17:11:20+00:00

Got a crush on a friend, she said "I love you, but you don't make me horny", after that I realized that I held back most of my life. Decided that I would try to be more spontaneous and hit on more girls, that was a few months ago, got mixed results, but I'm so glad I'm doing it.

gritedge · 2021-12-30T15:15:38+00:00

been saying this in multiple places, and still can't emphasize this enough. It's not about being yourself, but about being "unappologetically" yourself. Don't give a fuck a about what she thinks on how you react. And for you: don't try cold approaches just yet. Find a hobby club around you (or join toastmasters if nothing), meet people there. That will be more suitable for you since you will have time to open up, get comfortable and things of high mutual interest.

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