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reaprofsouls · 2021-09-28T20:39:35+00:00

I feel like you are being a little dense. She talks about threesome's. Invites you to hang with her friend. Doesn't want a relationship. She fucks you.

Bro... I mean seriously? Stop being a "fun" guy. Stop being the "cool guy to chill with". Start being the guy that fucks her stupid, makes her cum 5 times and eats pizza afterward.

Dodechaedron · 2021-09-28T18:18:29+00:00

Maybe she just want sex from you, no romance.

TheSunshineMan · 2021-09-28T18:26:37+00:00

First of all.. get this and would want to potentially be in a relationship with her out of your head..

You're good enough to hang out with..

You were good enough.. at least in the past to have sex with..

But she doesn't see you as relationship material..

I'd invite her straight to the house for sex.. if she says anything other than a YES..

I'd probably just keep her on the way back burner..

Stop communication..

She doesn't want to have sex with you.. she doesn't see you as relationship material..

HeavenPiercingMan · 2021-09-28T18:37:21+00:00

But the more that I think about it the more I just want to tell her na Im good..

This is the key. The question everyone should be making is not "what I'm supposed to do?" but "what do I really want?"

People say "be yourself bro" but the real shit should be this: Be true TO yourself. Your guts want to bail? Bail. At this point it looks like if if you keep pushing, it'll only bring awkwardness, and deep down you know it. Moving on when you're keeping your cool is better than when your confidence has been shaken.

akace47 · 2021-09-28T19:04:51+00:00

Last time this happened to me, the hangout turned into the most passionate romance I’ve ever had.

Humble-Language1269 · 2021-09-28T20:41:10+00:00

Just say hey, you're great, but I'm not looking at you in a platonic sense and I have no wishes for a platonic relationship.

david10277 · 2021-09-29T03:02:42+00:00

Sometimes girls dont want the label , but everything your doing is a relationship. It does not matter. If she is hanging with you ,talking about 3somes and fucking you ..what is wrong with that,,? Sorry what did I miss. Look at her actions , not at her words, usually if shes coming from a bad relationship she does not want this new one to have that title. Just call it hanging , keep it fun and lose. She will attract more to you given shes not getting suffocated

DubDeuceInThisBih · 2021-09-28T22:55:06+00:00

to kick rocks. sound like you being used.

Ironic_Resting_Face · 2021-09-29T07:43:40+00:00

If you want a relationship with her then know this. You turn her on. She likes sex. She has had some experiences that she needs to deal with. If you are relationship material for real then you need to be cool to hang out with AND be able to talk about hard stuff. Shit man, all interesting people have baggage. It would be a huge turn off to be with a guy who couldn’t handle some deep talk. Even if you don’t have anything real to say just being there, listening, asking questions and checking in. “Idk what to say and don’t have any real advice. Sorry this happened to you. Is there anything I can do? I think you are great if that helps.”

Jamesdoink · 2021-09-29T16:31:10+00:00

Wish I had that problem 😂🤷

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