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Elbynerual · 2021-09-25T04:55:18+00:00

This post had to be taken down because it appears to be focused on a specific situation or person. While Field Reports deal with specific situations and people, remember that the focus is different:

A field report explains a lesson learned or demonstrates a Seduction concept.
If the point of this post is asking how to get that specific girl, it belongs in AskSeddit.

No worries though! Though the thread has been taken down, any conversations you have started here can still continue, and if you want to PM a mod to get their opinion on this thread, feel free to do so and they will still be able to weigh in.

For next time, remember that posts about a specific situational advice with a specific person are fine as field should be directed to Ask Seddit (/r/askseddit), not to be confused with Ask Reddit.

DoctaNofuchsgiveth · 2021-09-24T22:09:10+00:00

Just ask and then give her a date/time and place 😂

SpaceSnaxxx · 2021-09-24T23:33:00+00:00

Definitely don't tell her that you had to phone a friend.

2021-09-25T01:49:49+00:00

One of the biggest complaints women have on online dating is that guys fluff around with messages instead of asking them out and taking the lead to establish an actually meeting.

Dudes are forgetting that women have to sift through mountains of dog shit just to find a decent connection so when she thinks she may have one and you’re fluffing around instead of being direct, it’s frustrating as hell and she’ll write you off in a second if you don’t pull your finger out of your ass.

ARambunctiousFellow · 2021-09-25T01:16:03+00:00

Tell her instead of asking her out, you made a post asking what to respond on a forum about seduction and she'll need to wait longer so you can properly solve this puzzle

merchant_of_mirrors · 2021-09-24T23:14:44+00:00

"great, how about 4 days from now? I know a cool spot"

AUG-UAA-UAG-UGA · 2021-09-25T00:17:31+00:00

With the invitation ….

johnbugara · 2021-09-25T02:22:40+00:00

give her a time and a place, most women like when the guy takes control and actually plans it instead of the usual "idk where do you wanna go?"

Calamity__Bane · 2021-09-25T02:46:52+00:00

"Let's do Saturday. ______ good?"

SlyderKmK · 2021-09-24T23:36:14+00:00

So...a younger guy has no idea how to ask a chick out...shocker

Papa_Musk · 2021-09-25T03:57:52+00:00

I was planning on going to XYZ at TIME on DATE and would like you to join me

MisterShogunate · 2021-09-25T02:50:20+00:00

Ask her out now or tomorrow. Her temp may change soon. Strike while the iron’s hot. If you delay, you wasted an opening. If she doesn’t say yes, it was just a tease and she wasn’t serious.

agaren · 2021-09-25T04:54:06+00:00

“Would you like to grab a drink at XX on YY at Z:00?”

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Date	September 24, 2021 10:05 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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