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AelfredRex · 2021-07-11T00:08:37+00:00

So basically "Be desperate. Meet desperate. Be asshole. Lay doormat. Flee. Repeat."?

thelambofdeth · 2021-07-10T20:05:04+00:00

Advice like this is so cringe. Not necessarily bc it doesn't work, but its framed for such a specific individual. You can get away with the aloof, negging douchy front if you're attractive, of if you're just in a higher league than her. But OPs advice won't apply to the average dude because of how naturally douchy or oblivious you have to be in conjunction with being really attractive.

This advice is essentially saying "be someone else...all the time." Which just isn't realistic bc at some point if being a narcissistic, manipulative asshole isn't your natural frame, the facade will wear off. At some point females can just tell your being phoney and you're not such a great actor anymore, and it'll be a huge turn-off. That and you can't just be a total negging dick all the time. There has to be a balance of that with charm, and demonstrating some interest. Even the most conceited, pompous, haughty dude in the world still has to show a different layer now and then. And that becomes a entirely different balancing act. Not saying most of the stuff doesn't work to an extent, but its going to be pointless to most on this sub, logically.

PurpleGoomy · 2021-07-11T03:37:56+00:00

Dear god. Thats a straight block if you act like a cock.

UprightEeyore · 2021-07-10T23:57:51+00:00

Who tf has time enough to cold approach 7-30 women in one day? Mfers, I work 8-12 hours a day, six days a week on average. I can barely drag myself out of bed more than half an hour before I need to leave for work. Where am I supposed to find time to approach anyone, and where tf am I supposed to even do it?

Edit: No punctuation or capitalization while texting? Y'all have no clue how to make that one make sense do you?

Edit 2: Tl;dr, if you wanna be perceived as a misogynistic asshat, go right ahead and follow this advice. Have fun being alone emotionally, if not physically

PaqS18 · 2021-07-10T18:57:08+00:00

Why only hey Isn’t that boring?

mjornir · 2021-07-11T01:13:27+00:00

What’s the purpose/mechanics behind not using a compliment when doing an approach? I feel like that’s a good honest disarming technique but I’d like to hear an opposing take

GDAWG13007 · 2021-07-10T15:06:45+00:00

To add to this, I would also say to approach and talk to people in general. A lot of guys who have problems getting girls who come here probably also don’t have great social skills anyway. They need to learn how to talk to everybody.

PrettyLittlePenguin · 2021-07-10T15:19:35+00:00

Yes, don't be yourself and use tricks so you put women even more in an ivory tower. Approach women but be yourself. This might score you a short term date but can fuck you up in the long run. Then again if you're desperate go for it, any action is better than no action.

flyherapart · 2021-10-26T20:44:15+00:00

So what you're saying is, you're a virgin.

lebronsballs · 2021-10-26T22:41:54+00:00

This is quite literally the dumbest shit

ReadItSteveO · 2021-10-27T16:35:57+00:00

Thanks Barstool for sending me to this little gem. Safe to say OP has NEVER been laid before, unless you're counting implements of husbandry and/or kinfolk

Leviathansplunge · 2021-07-10T17:46:47+00:00

If I had the authority to upvote this post 1000fold I would, this is the only practical and truthful advice I have seen on this sub.

I have taken heavy downvotes for saying stuff like;"No compliments, no validation, use your time constraints, set the logistics". If there is one thing I learned about reddit, truth gets downvotes, people can't handle reality.

nevertextgoodnight · 2021-07-11T00:52:54+00:00

Honestly... Not bad

ssuperiormen · 2021-07-10T14:51:11+00:00

By the way. Real advice is intended to be painful. Otherwise it would be useless flattering. And you want to move forward not just feeling good but actually becoming an object you can feel good about.

Snoo79020 · 2021-10-27T03:00:47+00:00

I am also here from the Barstool article to pile on

Xx_didgy_xX · 2021-07-10T15:45:55+00:00

This is creepy as shit

Global-Bridge-6787 · 2021-07-10T16:54:28+00:00

Quick logical question: if you’re getting her number, how does a profile picture fit into this? Not being facetious. I’m asking because that would only appear on someone’s social media.

Katuzi · 2021-08-02T18:24:48+00:00

Is a shirtless mirror selfie good as profile picture?

GuiltyDetective133 · 2021-08-11T18:09:12+00:00

Preciate g

ContemporaryIdiot · 2021-10-26T22:20:46+00:00

What's 'soy' ?

carebarry · 2021-10-26T22:48:13+00:00

Holy shit some of y’all are creepy

QarinahOshun · 2021-10-26T23:17:44+00:00

What. The fuck. 🥴 My god you’re a sad fuck.

Dry_Examination_1858 · 2021-10-27T03:16:43+00:00

LOL! This has to be a joke right? These are some of the worst ideas I’ve ever came across. You can’t possibly be serious lol

classified31 · 2021-10-27T03:55:19+00:00

OP is just regurgitating The Game Yes it works, but this is one of the dumbest ways I’ve ever seen it described in my entire life.

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