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[–]Dutchcat1077 72 points73 points74 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
She’s is not interested. You’re continually lowering your value by texting her repeatedly. She’s got you and now she is bored with you.
[–]paddywacknack 15 points16 points17 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Fuck that stings
[–]fat_cindy 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Or he’s being catfished.
[–]According_Ant388 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
that stings! why can’t we just express our affection for someone when we genuinely like them?? I mean, I know most of the time it’s not reciprocated, but it feels worse not to allow yourself express that feeling
[–]BasquiatLover936 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You can. Don't let these jokers game you. You just have to not be excessive about it. I don't like to play games with people. In my experience, it's much better to be more upfront about what's going on in your head.
[–]michimoto 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Saying it like it is, good man
[–]PinchePendejo 20 points21 points22 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah dude it’s time to start taking to other girls. This one isn’t interested and will be gone for awhile banging dudes in a foreign country.
[–]Interesting-Brief202 9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
i have been texting a girl for almost two weeks
Here's your mistake. You don't play that game. You don't chat on the phone or text about bullshit until after you have fucked her. The phone is only for setting up a date.
Repeat this to yourself 10 times every morning
The phone is only to set up a date.
etc.
Any other texting or calling before sex will make her lose interest because it shows desperation. It shows you have nothing better to do than chat with her all day, I.E. you have no life.
Next time you get a chick's number, text her later that day. The conversation should go like this.
You: Hey Amanda, it's godchurch7. What's up?
Her: Nothin, just (doing stupid girl shit)
You: Cool. Let's get drinks at Bumpkin bar at 11:30.
Her: OK.
[–]godchurch7 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
haha will do this for sure next time >_<
[–]bhudist 9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Leave her alone man.
[–]godchurch7 6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
haha looks like you too waited for too long :(
[–]bhudist 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Indeed I did, don't want anyone to make the same mistakes I did.
[–]TheBookOfSeil 12 points13 points14 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You talked too much and waited too long. You're supposed to talk and have a good time, then ask her out so she knows you're interested in her "like that" before you talk more. Otherwise, she knows enough about you without the context and she won't have any reason to value that information.
It's always made more sense to me to talk first, get to know each other and then express interest but that's not how the order works. For some reason, you have to express interest first and then get to know each other after thats been established.
ohh okay will keep this in my mind
[–]mfposgbcs 9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
You should've asked her out the first day you texted her
[–]dontpushyourluck 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I agree. This is how I prevent scammers from stringing the messaging out for days or weeks and wasting my energy.
[–]godchurch7 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
but i didn’t knew her at all so how am i supposed to ask her out on the first day?
[–]SilverSpirit7 11 points12 points13 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Be bold. Get to know her through a date, not texting.
[–]doovinator -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Say: Gosh, I've known you for (x time) now and I'd really like to ask you out!
[–]LordPrettyMax -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Texting is for logistics and you know if you like her when you meet up. Date doesn’t always mean dinner just ask her out for coffee so it’s low pressure and you can bail at anytime if it’s not going well.
[–]WalidfromMorocco 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
On the bright side, you learned your lesson: these hoes ain't worth 2 months of texting.
[–]quantumactual 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Probably because you’ve been texting this girl for 2 months.
Moving forward, stop wasting so much time ‘talking’ online, because you aren’t actually interacting or making connections..
If you start talking with a girl online, you try to get her out as soon as you can.
Mmmmkay?
[–]Formal-Confidence-91 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Fuck that three months shit.
3-4 texts then move it to phone
Phone to date in next 5 days
Anything else leads start to go cold
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is the typical "I got no interest, because I can get you anytime I want" bullshit. Don't take it personally. Let her be busy for 2 months in advance, plenty of other girls out there.
[–]fat_cindy 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She’s catfishing you
[–]Anhilator26 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Is it two months or weeks? Because two months is far too long
[–]omayerista 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Are you sure it’s not a guy just having fun . Or a gurl , getting in her self esteem booster. Move on bud. Happy searching !
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