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[–]findingmemo600 88 points89 points90 points 5 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
Well how am I supposed to be a big booty latina girl that cooks and cleans and speaks about 3% English???
[–]baranohanayome 25 points26 points27 points 5 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
I know this is just meant to be a sarcastic response, but you're really looking at the surface. Look a little bit deeper. Traits like being responsible, caring, family-oriented, traditional are what you're looking for.
I don't think you need to be domineering, but you do need to show you are secure/responsible. Honestly it's not that hard to find yourself a reasonably attractive conservative housewife provided you're a reasonably attractive dependable guy with a steady job.
[–]WorldChessImprover 10 points11 points12 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
The key is being authentic: If you are dominant, she will be subordinate. If you work hard at your job and bring home the money, she will cook and clean. You will be in a successful relationship, or so the theory goes. If you are lazy and have a lot of debts (or the opposite: too much money!), you will get a ‘big booty latina girl’ that won’t cook and clean, but only make problems. If you do good in your life (being authentic, standing your ground, showing mental superiority, and telling what you think), the people around you will reward you with their respect and God will gift you a beautiful wife.
[–]MyGuyYouLostFaith 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Also read “The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F***”
[–]bruckbruckbruck 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And Models
[–]Dmac09 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Um, what? Are you kidding? No one should be subordinate in a relationship. Get that Bible crap out of here.
[–]bruckbruckbruck 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
I do think this sort of dynamic can often encourage some men to be toxic assholes and for some women to enable them. And the word "subordinate" is definitely loaded and not the ideal word to use here.
That said I get your point but it is a real desire that many women (and some men) have to find someone who is in control. It takes pressure off them to let someone else take the lead. Plus there is often a primal sexual attraction that some have towards more confident and in control people.
For instance I wouldnt say BDSM is exactly a religious thing...
[–]Anonymous808 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Great answer wow.💯
[–]hereim12 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So I want to be a blonde gringa, skinny, with nice ass and with a lot money. (Who owns a Manhattan apartment?
[–]Distinct_Bandicoot39 24 points25 points26 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I’ve heard this before and yes its true but, I completely disagree. Don’t mold yourself around a type of woman because your trying to get with her. That will leave you fucked up and confused when it doesn’t when the chick still isn’t into you for whatever reason. Instead I suggest becoming the best version of yourself, read, become knowledgeable, practice integrity, and respect for everyone, work your fucking ass off and get that bag, start building good habits, read lots of self help and improvement books( look up atomic habits 🥇) pretty soon you’ll find that you have become naturally confident and magnetic af.
Not a specific woman, but more just the general type of women you like.
[–]AnUnfortunateBirth 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I absolutely hate this advice. If I'm looking for someone ideal who's: not ambitious, vain, mopes around, content to stay home, etc... I'm still not going to catch one by being the same. It seems the common game is to always pretend like you are adventurous, brave, love to travel, etc... and then scale it back and pretend like bar hopping and a drive to the beach are adventures and that reading a whole novel makes your cultured. I wish that it was okay to say you're boring if you're looking for a boring person.
[–]bruckbruckbruck 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Boring has negative connotations. A better way to frame that would be disciplined and enjoying the simple pleasures of life rather than the impulsive stimulation seeking potentially ADHD lifestyles of others.
[–]Deep-Advice7587 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Really?! I must be attracting wind lol
[–]Slightly-Evil-Man 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Well I must say that is easier said than done...some of us have been judged unfairly based off appearance alone but I have tried to change my worst qualities so that i stop ending up with women that I cannot sustain a relationship with...I guess that's all any of us can do ultimately
So you could attract women who have been judged unfairly off appearance alone...
[–]derpykoalaboy 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
<3
[–]putcoolusernamehere 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I agree that becoming the man who can attract the girl of your dreams is really the only surefire way of finding a quality woman in the long run. What would you advise people to do in the meantime while becoming that man? I'm currently obese, working on developing a career from my dead end job, and adressing issues with anxiety/depression/focus issues. Can I still date in the meantime? Is it even worth my time?
[–]_myvanitythrowaway_ 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
While I agree with the idea behind this, what do you do when you have become the type of person you would want to be with but then are unable to find those qualities in women? I'm 24 for reference.
[–]GracieFairmont86 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
So if I want to attract this girl Karen.....
[–]OhHaiMark_ThrowAway1 point 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Make sure you are a manager. She will find you.
Oh fuck we diving into some r/manifestation I like it
[–]ineedavacation4 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well I’m nothing so do I attract nothing
[–]Slightly-Evil-Man 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hard to do since they tend to be hard to approach
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