Somewhere I read this quote and it really hit me deep...

norwegiandoggo · 2020-08-16T11:32:01+00:00

If you must control or manipulate your partner to stay with you. It's time to let go

2020-08-16T12:02:15+00:00

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musterkin · 2020-08-16T14:22:35+00:00

My parents’ marriage hasn’t been that good. My father is very much dominant over my mother.

Now I recently got into my first relationship and this is something I told her. Because yes if she’s doesn’t feel free what’s the point of love.

Captain_w00t · 2020-08-16T11:33:21+00:00

Another similar version says: “If you love them, set them free”

Dominus-Prime- · 2020-08-16T15:23:18+00:00

Problem is- most guys in this sub are clingy and needy to any girl who gives them attention.

This advice is very advanced. Love, is quite easy to do. You can love just about anyone. It can be given freely and boundlessly. But most guys have a covert contract and see love as transactional. This is because they are still in a lower state of neediness and hunger which leads to expectation. They have this bc they don’t know themselves, for, if a guy knows himself and is a man, he doesn’t need anything from a woman.

A Man can have numerous lovers, bond with them, care for them, love them all but not grasp at or try to possess them. It also requires setting the stage that these women are on his chessboard and he decides who gets to the inner circle of trust and respect. It’s takes time. However, this leads to the one problem of management. It becomes a second job maintaining these connections. Some women will love spending time with a man (because it’s rare) and not care so much that she is in competition for first chair. Other women will put up with it for a short time and say “I deserve better” and leave. And this is fine. They are all free to come and go as they please. Those women with that attitude will find themselves often going for a nice “Kevin” who fauns over their every move. Eventually they will become bored with the lack of emotional challenge, stimulation and variety.

The secret hidden in this quote is the “go free” part. When a man allows to let a woman go it takes the power out of their pussy. Whatever’s left are whatever qualities she brings to the table. A man can see clearly what is valuable and what isn’t once the power of her pussy is taken away.

The_Sir_Galahad · 2020-08-16T16:55:41+00:00

What a great quote.

I think this is why most men fail in relationships and dating.

Needy men are the most unattractive to women.

The_Indian_Batman · 2020-08-16T14:41:18+00:00

It's repeated a few times in Corey Wayne's "How to be a 3% man". Definitely worth reading. A few times if you haven't already

disbitchdathoe69 · 2020-08-16T22:50:03+00:00

So true!! I loved him so much and trusted he was doing what I was. He was so free he never even thought of me or what we built together. One day I will heal.

Joshd_47 · 2020-08-17T05:47:42+00:00

Unconditional love at its finest. If you loved someone, you’d let them go, no attachment. Any done in attachment has a degree of lust, fear, greed, imbalance or scarcity

Shashankmiller · 2020-08-17T10:01:28+00:00

My friend is a natural and always girls really crave him literally... He said to me once that the only way to keep a person, if that's your goal, is to let them go if they want to.. I've seen his gf going mad over him bcos he gives so much freedom that she actually stays glued to him.

ahmed_1dhari1 · 2020-08-16T12:56:08+00:00

I feel like I'm afraid from the whole world to even think to touch her, how can i just don't think this way🥺

smoovejayy · 2020-08-17T05:22:31+00:00

I like this. I’ll remember for my next relationship.

bbwcuriouscurves · 2020-08-17T07:18:12+00:00

I have some stuff in my soul today that needed to bump up against this idea. Thank you for sharing!

notathr0waway1 · 2020-08-16T15:45:05+00:00

My mom never did that with me and that's why I am almost estranged from her

sexy-sage-hatake · 2020-08-16T21:31:01+00:00

how can i make my partner feel more free?

barragan14 · 2020-08-16T23:10:33+00:00

Nice! Worth it

neoncx · 2020-08-17T09:45:12+00:00

One piece ??

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Title	Somewhere I read this quote and it really hit me deep...
Author	braincalmer
Upvotes	1164
Comments	63
Date	August 16, 2020 11:18 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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