I just got asked if I'm a model in the parking lot by a woman. I still have a hard time with dating like all of you.

aluminiumaorta · 2020-11-22T00:26:02+00:00

Love this. Men, we must learn the craft. Looks only unlocks the door, it takes knowledge to walk through it....

Jock_Status · 2020-11-22T00:52:48+00:00

Honestly looks are a crutch. You probably need to grow a pair. A good looking confident Alpha type of male will scare off most women. They don’t like that even if they are attracted. A shy good looking guy that HAS boundaries is perfect for women his value is high but also his attainable

bonvoysal · 2020-11-22T02:41:00+00:00

hmmm...all i know is that my friend...he is not even model looking but definitely better looking than average; Rob Lowe like, but not as refined? Women always and i mean always turn to check him out and he acts like an ass too! Yet, women throw themselves at him. Now he is flirtatious, maybe charming when he likes a woman, but if you're being told you're like a model, and you still feel unwanted, then there are other issues going on....just my unfounded opinion of course! :D

thing that comes to mind...if women are dumping you, it could also be that they feel they are unworthy of your looks. I talked to one of these girls taht liked this rob lowe like guy and she was like, honestly i would date him, buti can't compete with all the women so i'm happy if i can just get laid by him. WTF? So who knows...maybe you need to be more direct/open when you really like a girl and let her know, hey, i really like you, no other woman can't compete with you, etc.

Morose123 · 2020-11-22T13:39:31+00:00

If you find it 'extremely frustrating to date' and you're actually good looking (one opinion means little) then you are not particularly intelligent. Dating is extremely easy for good looking people as long as they have a modicum of social skills.

exuberancemethod · 2020-11-22T00:21:50+00:00

I feel that brother

El0vution · 2020-11-22T06:08:43+00:00

You need to integrate your shadow buddy. Many guys would die to have the looks you have. Maximize it!

ihavenolayfu · 2020-11-22T08:11:16+00:00

Same. I'm a female. That's the reason why i stopped making myself look pretty because what really matters is how you get along with people. Some guys find me attractive and cute but i i have this energy that makes me less interesting to them and unavailable. Not just in dating, but also in looking for new friends. I forgot how to socialize now. My social skills sucks!

Victory4Life · 2020-11-22T11:46:56+00:00

I’m 6’2”, have an okay physique, chiseled face, dark hair and it’s hard too for me to get a date with a quality woman I’m genuinely attracted to. I can get fat, unattractive women that easily want to date me at the drop of a hat but can’t often get the women who have a pretty face and decent physique. And I’ve had women co-workers tell me they don’t see what the problem is based on my looks. So yeah looks matter little when it comes to women for sure.

ultralightskinmma · 2020-11-26T09:33:00+00:00

Bro I’m in the same boat with you, I’m 6’4” 200lbs got abs, i didn’t look like how I look right now; till right after HS.. Which is when I started to hit my stride(job, living & working with dad) I was in my head too much thinking these women cared about my past self as much as I thought I did. Once you realize everyone is kicking there ass about there past self you’ll stop giving yourself a hard time bro. It take a while but it’s a healing process like any other. Just be smart with your Johnson when your confidence shifts Ight lol

Low_Anxiety_9105 · 2020-11-27T18:35:01+00:00

Hmm...understandable

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