Do people now hate outer game?

erebuskaimoros · 2014-11-25T19:03:11+00:00

The prevailing sentiment is that outer game is necessarily inauthentic, and therefore needy and unattractive.

If you are running routines you are essentially telling yourself "I am not attractive the way I am. In order to have success with women I must trick them into being attracted to me."

ThrowawayPUA · 2014-11-25T19:07:13+00:00

Things have evolved since 2010. But outer game is still essential.

Perhaps the best example is RSD. They promote inner game heavily, and dismiss the importance of outer game. If you watch their free videos, that's all they talk about. But their paid products rely on outer game.

TheGodfather_1992 · 2014-11-26T00:21:09+00:00

People here are clueless and largely unsuccessful. Outer game to them is scary and requires approaching and exposing oneself to failure, inner game can be 'achieved' by sitting at home reading reddit or meditating or whatever else they think will work.

Truth: outer game is necessary. Think of it like tennis: someone who is more athletic (inner game) will have an advance over someone not athletic, but someone who knows how to properly swing a tennis racket, pick shots, knows tennis strategy, etc, will be much more successful than someone athletic but new to the technique of the sport. Technique is worth 5x as much as everything else. Outer game is technique with respect to seduction.

Feel free to ignore this and continue justifying your isolation as 'productive' though because you read so many posts and are really finding yourself. You're as useful as someone doing pushups to improve his tennis skills without ever setting foot on a tennis court.

Alphadestrious · 2014-11-25T20:41:37+00:00

Outer game? Nah. It has its uses.

cipahs · 2014-11-26T03:58:28+00:00

Inner game is more politically correct than outer game which some view as manipulation.

RahsaanK · 2014-11-25T20:51:35+00:00

You are somewhat on the right track, but think of inner game as a seed and the game that comes out as the plant. With that being said, your game will be COMPLETELY from inside.

The game has finally come to the point where it is much like exercise. Everyone (for the most part) knows that there isn't a magic pill you can take while continuing to eat garbage and have six pack abs. Just like there isn't one line you can say to a woman you meet to have her drop her panties and fuck in the bathroom.

With that being said and understood, people are taking the journey of inner development, mastering the areas in their life they have weaknesses in and becoming a REAL man, the journey never ends and it will take YEARS to get great. But the result of course is worth it and if it was easy, everyone would be awesome at one night lays.

I can't possibly explain what it takes to become a real man in this post and unfortunately I was raised in a fatherless home and have depended on role models for guidance. Personally a MASSIVE help has come from RSDTyler. He has a YouTube page and is the CEO of Real Social Dynamics. https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCD4xqm6vJ3K4ntppsE1jL4g

If you are looking at getting back into the game, this is a great place to get started.

My two cents: Approach, approach, approach. Start early at night (8pm), go out 2-3 times a week. NEVER get caught up on one female. Focus on YOU having fun and others will feel that energy. Early physical (non creepy) contact, assert dominance by not buying into shit tests and showing that you don't care what people think about you. Good luck and HAVE FUN!!!!

Title	Do people now hate outer game?
Author	TheGodfather_1992
Upvotes	0
Comments	21
Date	November 25, 2014 6:48 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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