Do You Ever Call Twice?

chumpta · 2011-02-01T04:41:09+00:00

if you're asking if it CAN work then yes! there are lots of things that can work, even if not recommended. i know a kid who texted a girl 3 times in a row without a reply and got her out one night. i just had a text fall flat with no reply. am i going to try again? you bet your ass.

so many things could be happening - she's busy, some type of tech fluke where she didn't get it, she got it and read it but couldn't text back at the time/answer the phone. maybe she doesn't want to talk to you right now, or maybe she doesn't want to talk to you ever. who knows? if this girl is not a part of your social circle you've got nothing to lose by being persistent. use it to learn some calibration even.

StarkNYC · 2011-02-01T04:59:33+00:00

I do call twice (meaning call back immediately), and surprisingly, it appears to work. This is one of those counterintuitive things that I never would have done but several folks w game told me to do it, so I did...

Reasons I've heard is that sometimes girls will go digging around in their purse only to it out (pun intended :D) just as the ringing ends, and are too (shy/shit-testy/difficult/etc) to call back. Also heard that it makes it seem urgent.

I'll usually call once, if no answer, call again (within a minute or so). Then leave a message such as "Hey, it's Stark. Give me a call when you get a chance. Number is xxx-xxx-xxxx" (general advice is to keep it very short and upbeat).

I used to stick exclusively to text game, but had trouble with it. I grew annoyed and then did exclusively phone (thinking if she doesn't pick up, it will be a good excuse to go generate some more leads). Now I use a mix of both and it seems to work well.

absolutebeginners · 2011-02-01T04:11:18+00:00

2x max. Hey, could have been a fluke the first time (didnt get the text/call or something). If it isn't gonna happen, might as well give it one more try.

PUAmindset · 2011-02-01T02:19:29+00:00

seems to me like this would come off as clingy or too attached. girls hate that.

madcaesar · 2011-02-01T02:22:35+00:00

Nope!

Delightful_White · 2011-02-01T03:30:20+00:00

That's why they have caller ID. If you call and they don't answer, they know where to find you if they feel like talking to you.

on_the_dl · 2011-02-01T12:54:27+00:00

If you call the second time, she might talk to her. If you don't, you definitely won't talk to her. Calling a second time is the dominating strategy.

Geaux · 2011-02-01T15:41:41+00:00

When you get the girl's number in the club, call it immediately. This does two things:

She now has your number, so you can give her a hard time if she doesn't immediately save it to her phone.
Checks to make sure she gave you a legit number.

So, the next time you call, she is 100% sure who is calling her. Some girls won't answer a number they don't recognize.

Yotsubato · 2011-02-01T23:54:01+00:00

2x max, wait a day AT LEAST between the calls. People fucking hate it when you blow up their phone

9teen86 · 2011-04-04T05:06:04+00:00

1st time- Call, leave a voicemeail. Wait a day.

2nd time - no voicemail

There's no 3rd time

dec92010 · 2011-02-01T02:23:56+00:00

i never leave a voicemail

Title	Do You Ever Call Twice?
Author	interestedinonething
Upvotes	4
Comments	17
Date	February 1, 2011 1:46 AM UTC (15 years ago)
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