Does all this stuff actually work on "nice" girls who arn't into casual sex, one night stands, and going to the club to party.

2012-10-28T19:51:12+00:00

Being a cool, funny, confident person will "work" on everyone. If you think of PUA as a set of scripted routines/lines, then you have the wrong impression. They're a part of it, but ultimately, the point of PUA is simply being a confident, interesting person. Routines and lines are either training wheels for noobies, or just quick little things you throw in every now and then because they have uses.

"Nice" girls want the dick too. It's just that "nice" girls were taught to suppress their sexuality for whatever reason (religious, shyness, avoid slut-shaming, whatever). But at the end of the day, they want the consensual dick.

ikkake · 2012-10-28T19:27:39+00:00

This stuff doesn't work on anyone. You work on people, if you just reciting learned routines you are doing it wrong and it will not work on anyone. What will work on everyone is if you are attracting people with your own person, because you are one seductive mother fucker. All the stuff here are just guidelines how to get there.

Untraced · 2012-10-29T03:21:58+00:00

Yes.

kurtgodelisdead · 2012-10-28T19:01:02+00:00

You can go as far as you want with it. If you feel you're escalating too fast, you can always slow down. Just realize that they may thing you're a chump for not going all the way.

rebuildingMyself · 2012-10-29T05:57:05+00:00

Ask yourself what do YOU want? Then you calibrate your game based on that. You don't want casual sex? Fantastic! Don't bother learning game that gears towards that. Go for a number-close, get a proper date, and court that way.

sormenkynsi · 2012-10-29T18:11:52+00:00

As others have said, practicing this material will help you to become a more confident, interesting person. That will definitely help you to find the girls you are looking for.

The main reason you see a lot of talk about casual hookups and parties is more of a reflection on the guys using the material and not its suitability for use on different "kinds" of women.

Not partying, not drinking and no sex before marriage just means that you are looking for a different sub-set of girls. Your criteria definitely reduce the number of possible girls, but they are equally looking for a high value mate, just like the rest of them.

Vivian1993 · 2012-11-08T05:53:57+00:00

"You don't pick the women, you just give them a chance to pick you."

Bevman00 · 2012-10-29T00:09:17+00:00

Your problem is that you label women in these two different groups. The fact is, seduction techniques are applied to women in general. What you see work on the sluttiest girls will also work on the more conservative, traditional girls - and will probably be a lot more effective, in fact.

leodoestheopposite · 2012-10-30T22:39:46+00:00

2 fallacies in your question:

1) this stuff is not about casual sex, sure there's a lot of noise about that, this stuff is about becoming and living the life of a Confident Modern Male and indeed the occasional casual sex and ONS is part of the life of the Confident Modern Male, if he so chooses.
2) You'd be surprised how many "nice" girls have casual sex and ONS, it's all about creating a safe environment where they can let go of their inhibition, and satisfy that part of their personality that needs and wants casual sex / ONS.

Kozbot · 2012-10-28T20:35:30+00:00

you sound like a dork

Title	Does all this stuff actually work on "nice" girls who arn't into casual sex, one night stands, and going to the club to party.
Author	anewman1993
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Date	October 28, 2012 6:47 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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