Enough inner game can we get more little 'bullets'? Your favorite tricks/tips/logistics shortcuts. I"ll start

Kandoh · 2012-10-10T17:12:16+00:00

Before the approach: The easy opener.

Try to catch her eye across the room, when you do - wink or cock an eyebrow and give her a sly smile, then go off and talk with your friends, carry on with what you were doing. DO NOT LOOK AT HER AGAIN.

In 5-10 minutes you will be welcome to talk to her without awkwardness. In her head you were introduced already.

TofuTofu · 2012-10-10T12:43:11+00:00

Any same-night-lay tactics

Always be screening for logistics. If she's with friends, understand how you are going to get her away from her friends and if not, get the digits and get out. Try just asking her, "Would your friends be mad if I stole you away from them and fucked your brains out?"

Dealing with cockblocks without a wing

Use your body positioning. Spin the girl around so he can't even look at you two in the eye. If it looks like it might get ugly, use it as an excuse to bounce to another venue.

bajing · 2012-10-10T13:48:50+00:00

I've posted this before but one of my favorite things to do is to ask a girl to name three interesting things about herself. They almost always ask why and if they do I say "I don't do small talk, I need to know if you're interesting enough for me to talk to". If you do it playfully enough with the right tonality you don't come off as a dick (although some women have been off put by it, maybe 20%)

On the third one no matter what it is, I always say "try again". Often I tie in DHV stories to this because girl's love to talk about travel and I've traveled ALOT.

After this they ask me three interesting things about myself and I have stock answers prepared that are DHV's, it doesnt even come off as bragging because that's the nature of the question.

From there i'm normally golden, I almost always tell girls they're not adventurous enough. I grab their hand and say "we're going on an adventure". After that I k close out on the street, and bring them back to f close.

This exact routine has worked 6 times now, 3 same night lays and 3 day afters.

Pitrestop · 2012-10-10T16:47:03+00:00

Here's a little something I've been doing and i have no idea if it's a good thing or not..

When the girl starts teasing me back and showing some interest (this has to be a good while into the conversation though) I just say "Oh really? Fine then, I'll leave" In a playful tone of course.

I've done this maybe 5 or 6 times and it's had a 100% success rate : the girls literally pulled me back.

Edit: needless to say, take this as an IOI and capitalize on it: tease her about it, reward her for it ("let's go dance") etc.

Bobbagwell · 2012-10-10T19:15:29+00:00

The best times I have had is when you go to a place with a friend and play try to get rejected. The goal of the game is to get rejected by the biggest number of women in an hour. Its good for approach anxiety and it forces you to close fast. Even the most inept person usually gets a kiss or phone number. Also its fun to see the girls face when you're happy to get rejected. Also, sometimes we make up an opener for the other guy to use. The rules are simple. I make up an opener and you have to use it. If you don't open with it in under 60 seconds you have to take a shot, then open.

The big things I do to make the night more fun and literally play games. I have found that I do better if I am in a good mood. Or I just feel better when I fail. Either way it's a win/win.

2012-10-10T15:34:30+00:00

When I used to rely on openers or routines I often found myself stuck whenever things did not go as I expected or I got a response that I did not plan for. I also realized that most naturals never plan shit yet they tend to be quite sharp on their comebacks. So I stopped all the planning and forced myself to just come up with something on the spot. It actually worked. When you go from that trying to remember mode to trying to come up with something to say on the spot you leave no room for anxiety and things go surprisingly well just staying in the moment.

A few warm-ups. When you ring up some business do you plan what you are going to say? Do you go through the conversation in your head as you wait on hold with the music playing? Do you repeat your order in your head when queuing for something? Well, stop. You don't do that when you are speaking with friends. There is absolutely no need for that. Just talk to everyone as if you already know them.

It's really not the best idea to rely on openers or routines. You can use them once or twice to get your confidence up but instead of looking for more routines or openers you should really work on getting rid of them.

ImChrisBrown · 2012-10-10T19:21:45+00:00

Ran a warm up set the other night. Saw an hb8 eyeing a good looking guy and being in proximity to him. I met the guy, got his name and some information, then walked over and introduced myself to the set (hb8, hb7) and told them I wasn't there to hit on them, i had a friend I wanted them to meet because I think they'd get along well - I'll just introduce them and they can take it from there.

Social proofed myself (more) gave me a set to talk to all night (revisited like 3 times) and was super wing for the new homie. Good stuff.

DoxasticPoo · 2012-10-10T19:29:32+00:00

"Don't chase."

Some of the best advice, right there. If you're not chasing, you won't get one-itice, you don't care whether you screw up, and it's just easier to be you.

Edgar_Allan_Rich · 2012-10-10T20:04:28+00:00

Grocery store:

Look right at her and say "Hey, do you know how to make ______? I have no idea what I'm doing."

I usually ask something that nobody would know, like caesar dressing. Yeah, it sound stupid, but the question is obviously kind of a joke on the person saying it because what kind of idiot goes to the store with no recipe and asks strangers how to cook? You clearly aren't expecting a real answer, and that's the point, but to her it's just an interesting situation and you're a guy spicing up a boring trip to the grocery store. It's so much better than the passive "can you help me buy a sweater" approach IMO, and it's guaranteed to peak interest if you have half a personality.

2012-10-10T19:53:14+00:00

Kino - great thing to do is when out at a club/bar is to say something so she can't hear and you have to get close. When you do grab her from behind her waist and let it stay for a little.

This one takes some balls and good reading that she is into you but you grab her arm dominantly and turn her while still holding her arm and say I think something is on your dress/ass and just stare at it for much longer than normal. You can follow with a smile and tell her nice ass.

Lines -

I never ever use lines but I do have one that is my go to as a fall back and that is a variation of "are you interesting". You can vary it if she is giving you shit by saying, I only hang out with interesting people i don't know if you are etc. this does two things. One it lets to convo flow if you are stuck and it puts them in the position of having to qualify themselves which is subconsciously very important because after they do they will be subsequently think they like you because of the fact that they are qualifying.

MadSoulSK · 2012-10-10T12:41:24+00:00

I wrote one opener here in past and it was quite popular so here it goes again: Do you have a minute to hear about our savior Jesus Christ? Btw its funny when you r opening a set on street, whem you just say Hi!, and stop, they will follow by also stoping.

As she does something silly, stupid or unusual i like to add a nickname based of that. Example would be "Calf", but this one sounds much better in slovak language, more cute and inocent but still have the teasing element.

6PoolPwnage · 2012-10-10T17:45:09+00:00

Don't really like anything you posted. No offense or anything.

A lot of guys on this sub-reddit shouldn't be performing what you just said. They'll come off probably creepy as fuck. Instead of telling them what to say, show them how they should say it. Cause most vents will go word-per-word on what you just said, regardless of the scenario... So I think we should demostrate how to come off as Alpha on saying these things, and how to look beastly doing sn opener. Don't just give them phrases. Fuck, I don't know, spitballin here.

Title	Enough inner game can we get more little 'bullets'? Your favorite tricks/tips/logistics shortcuts. I"ll start
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Date	October 10, 2012 9:21 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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