Escape from the Friend Zone exists?

ibuprofiend · 2014-11-09T22:34:56+00:00

I think it's better to just say that no one EVER escapes the friendzone because such hope can destroy a man. I'm sure it happens occasionally, but it's so rare that it's not worth thinking about.

txroller · 2014-11-09T22:01:01+00:00

so, she thinks YOU have friend zoned HER?

DaygameCoach · 2014-11-10T00:20:03+00:00

It does but it proves that you were never her friend...since you are killing the friendship for a chance to date her when you know its a long shot.

Skyfloper · 2014-11-10T00:20:29+00:00

My friend who constantly complained about being "forever alone" actually did eventually get the girl who friend zoned him. I even heard her use the words "friend zoned" when it came to him. It lasted a year before she broke up with him. Success? Maybe...

lilhurt38 · 2014-11-10T05:22:40+00:00

By the way, she's telling you that she is interested in you. Basically, she's saying you can have it if you want it. A girl that's not interested in you will be certain of whether or not you're in the friendzone. They're not gonna be like, "I don't know if you are, hehe."

If a guy is legitimately friendzone, he basically has to go for broke if he wants out. He has to risk their friendship in order to get with her. If he really is sexually interested in her, it wasn't a friendship in the first place. It just means that he has to be honest with his intentions. Some guys will come out and tell them their true feelings. That's one way to do it. Another way is to get some balls, flirt, kino, and set a sexual frame. I don't do the whole telling them my feelings thing cause I really don't build up romantic feelings for girls that I'm not already hooking up with.

skgoa · 2014-11-10T12:47:54+00:00

Yes, you can get out of the friend zone. I (inadvertenly) did it several times. But it's a long process: you basically have to move on and be successful with other women for a while. Then when she is between relationships, she might re-evaluate your attractiveness. This is what seems to have happened here as well. You are way more attractive now than you were before, so now aren't just labeled as "friend".

My biggest "one-itis" ever ended up stalking me years after I had lost interest in her, because she is a crazy bitch (I just didn't want to see it back when I was into her) and I was in a relationship with someone else at the time, which she just couldn't get into her head. I only learned afterwards (when I started to learn about pick-up) how I had basically done everything right by chance to get out of her friend zone and be so attractive to her. Doing it deliberately for years would have been incredibly mentally exhausting.

99.99999% of the time, you will never ever be able to get someone attracted to you once they have friend-zoned you. And even if you do, it's likely that you will have moved on by that time. When you are good enough at being attracting prospective partners, why would you wat to go back and be with someone who doesn't appreciate you? Forget her! There are lots of people out there, even if your hormones make it seem like there is only one right now.

Or to use an adage as old as the internet: Go fuck ten other women! At that point you will have build the attractiveness/skills necessary or (more likely) you will be over her.

norsepotato · 2014-11-10T14:08:08+00:00

All you have to do is ask Ron Weasley. He has good advice.

urfutureboss · 2014-11-10T08:12:32+00:00

This is cringey

Title	Escape from the Friend Zone exists?
Author	chibiske
Upvotes	1
Comments	14
Date	November 9, 2014 9:59 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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