Eternally rejected why is that?

norwegiandoggo · 2025-02-23T10:37:08+00:00

Tell us what you're doing.

We can't tell you what you're "doing" wrong if you don't tell us what you're doing.

Desirings · 2025-02-23T14:57:04+00:00

I saw your picture on your profile, it's definitely your face. Nah, seriously though, you look good, better than many men I see, so it's probably your approach and speech

Unhappy_Fig_9780 · 2025-02-23T11:54:37+00:00

Well I don't see anything wrong with your post, can you send me your face pic? Maybe the problem is there ngl

MysteryLiezer · 2025-02-23T09:54:51+00:00

Before I let you know what I THINK you’re doing wrong, tell me what it is that you THINK you’re doing right…

Red_Cat69 · 2025-02-23T10:40:55+00:00

You look fine, so it must be something in your approach and/or vibe.

And nobody can judge that from here I'm afraid.

HomelessMilkman · 2025-02-23T11:45:24+00:00

It's very simple; if you're tense and anxious, if you feel uncomfortable, you make the girl feel uncomfortable and loses (never has) interest.

If you're relaxed and loose, you encourage the girl to relax, you encourage the girl to feel good and she likes you.

There's a million reasons why you could seize up in an interaction and the moment you start projecting tense, conflicting, hesitant, uncomfortable energy, it's over. You could be doing that two seconds in, or an hour in.

People can tell you all kinds of shit subjectively but the feedback is right there; if people are "standoffish or uninterested", you may be 'funny and great' some of the time but not when it matters.

Actually doing that, being comfortable around strangers is another topic entirely; I get it, who is fully comfortable and at ease around strangers? The guys getting consistent results, 1% or so.

Thelondonvoyager · 2025-02-23T12:07:43+00:00

Ultimately its because you don't think your good enough.

It is not easy to fix.

throwawayofc1112 · 2025-02-23T15:07:38+00:00

Bro you have a handsome face and a nice physique from what I saw, it is definitely not a looks problem. I am having a similar problem but let me ask what does your approach generally sound like step by step? At what point in the conversation do you get rejected?

Thebiggestbigsquid · 2025-02-23T21:41:15+00:00

Ya you don’t have abs. Great personality doesn’t translate to being sexually desirable. Be open minded and genuinely find out what your flaws are. You might be aiming too high at least until you get more experience

slice888 · 2025-02-24T12:17:32+00:00

199 at 5’9”. ?! With abs? it sounds like you look like a ninja turtle or something. Maybe it’s a little too much, bro.

Intelligent-Roll-763 · 2025-02-26T12:52:14+00:00

Given that you look decent, it has to be your vibe and the way you approach.

I have to warn you about some of the advice you will find on these forums.s I wasted 2 years doing the "direct" approach with no results for example, so if you're doing that, stop it. No matter what people say here it doesn't work for most men. I was lucky I stumbled into this more experienced guy randomly and he showed me another way: I lost my virginity in 3 hours doing daygame and I'm now racking up dates . Almost everyday.

So that leads me to ask you : How do you approach these girls ?

jackthehat6 · 2025-02-24T14:29:56+00:00

Please lmk what I’m doing wrong.

probably nothing. It's a massive massive numbers game.

FriendlyWrenChilling · 2025-02-23T08:33:58+00:00

Firstly, unlink attraction and looks. See my post on how attraction works.

Second, it's most likely that you're not doing the principles of approaching. See my post on how to do a good approach. Your approaches suck, that's why you're being rejected over and over again.

Title	Eternally rejected why is that?
Author	Helpful_Thanks8683
Upvotes	4
Comments	27
Date	February 23, 2025 8:26 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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