I had a brain blast and figured this would be the best place to get some feedback!

I had a Eureka moment where I found that when confronted with an attractive girl I would either ignore her or have a strictly platonic conversation. I was facing a dumb double standard I set for myself. Let me explain.

I was worried women could read my mind and somehow see I found them attractive (why I thought this was a bad thing is beyond me). I would get in my head about what I should do/not do and ultimately ignore them. I was ashamed of my sexual thoughts and didn't act on them. I was also worried they couldn't read my mind (dumb, I know). So I would only have a platonic conversation with them hoping they would instigate sexually. We all know how that would go.

This led me to my eye opening, Eureka, can't-believe-I'm-that-boneheaded moment: why be ashamed for being attracted to someone? In fact, if someone is interesting to you, pursue them!

If she's attractive, don't be scared or ashamed; approach her. Don't approach her scared that she will reject you. Be glad she rejects you. Allow yourself the chance of the conversation possibly developing into something.

But getting rejected is not the goal.

The goal is to see where that interest takes you. It may end after one sentence. One text. One week. One decade. But you don't know. And you will only know by going up to that attractive girl that keeps catching your eye with the intent of sexual interest.

What do ya'll think?