I went out 2 nights in a row with people I met online, and each night stayed until 3AM which I’m proud about. First time EVER doing cold approach.

1st night:

We head to the first bar and my friends tell me to open the pretty blondes behind me. I say “no” or “let me warm up”, and basically avoid it all together.

We go to the next bar and I’m not used to the volume at all, I can’t hear shit, and it fucks with my confidence a lot. I just walked around which made me feel more comfortable, but approaching was basically off the table for me.

We go to the next bar and my friend introduces me to some girls, I say hi and awkwardly act like I’m not in the conversation, the girls are clowning me saying “ooh you’re so mysterious” lol. I did the same thing to another set he introduced me to and again, they were basically like “why the f is he not approaching us”.

2nd night:

This night started good but ended badly. We start walking around, and right away I’m high-fiving everyone, saying I like their costume, and generally giving off good vibes. A girl asks what my costume is and I say “a white boy”, she and her friends laugh and we are making good eye contact. I asked if she wanted my only fans link jokingly and she said yes while keeping eye contact, I’m feeling good here. Then, we go into the loud bar, my friends start chatting up girls, I am too afraid to approach for a variety of reasons. And it just completely torched my momentum. I did not recover, and ended up leaving early.

Conclusion:

I think the overall performance was really not good, but there are small things that I’m proud of. Not sure if the wings will want to go out again, but I’ve never approached a girl directly in my life, and was taking small wins as they came. Approaching a girl was not a win for me, saying hi then running away was good enough for me.

Edit: just want to say that I’m not ugly, I’m 6ft, and girls regularly give me eye contact, but I just look away. Even my wings were telling me if I just had some confidence I could really pull some girls. I’m not socially retarded, I get along with dudes completely fine, I’m just very very very shy with approaching women.