First approach - I did it!

loofyd · 2021-07-31T11:58:21+00:00

There’s no magic boys. You will feel scared. But it’s accepting that, not running, and doing it anyway!

Needed to hear that

Count_Giggles · 2021-07-31T11:47:54+00:00

Well good for you for getting out of your shell.

BUT - Don't shit where you eat.

As long as you only use this to get more comfortable talking to women I am all for it but otherwise, this puts a lot on the line for you.

Evocatus_ad_levare · 2021-07-31T08:00:25+00:00

Agreed I did 5 this week and it actually good

Crixusgannicus · 2021-07-31T13:39:08+00:00

Once you get past a certain number you no longer give a shite about what happens one way or the other.

That number varies from person to person so...

Keeping going and discover yours!

Nataru922 · 2021-07-31T13:00:12+00:00

I did the same thing as you and absolutely regret it. I got ghosted after a few weeks. If I got ghosted by a woman from outside it would be easy to recover from, but seeing someone at work every day, who you were attached to, and ghosted you, really fucking sucks.

So I'm just warning you here. There's enough girls outside, don't shit where you eat.

The0rangeKind · 2021-07-31T14:49:56+00:00

girls are not worth shitting your job over. focus on practicing with them outside of work dude

voice-overs · 2021-07-31T22:45:14+00:00

Young man let me give you a hint... Beautiful women are easier to talk to because no one does. Everyone wants to, but few approach. If you know how to start a conversation besides where you from, what do you do, or what's your sign, you'll do wonderfully. And for God's sakes look presentable! I don't know how I ended up on this thread, or sub or whatever you call it... But I sure enjoy reading everyone's tales of whoa. You may ask how can I know these things? Well, it's because I am 64 and have chased women on almost every continent in the world. It all comes down to one thing... everyone wants to be needed. Actually there is one more thing. If you can get a woman to talk about herself and you truly listen, you'll be a superstar in her book. Never ask a closed end question. Good luck to you guys it's definitely worth the effort.

JurJur · 2021-07-31T17:23:35+00:00

always a good feel leaving away from a cold approach! sometimes, id force it regardless and id always feel better

Aerial_penguin · 2021-07-31T19:15:36+00:00

Was it a seduction approach? Or just a casual conversation with a coworker?

Chewbaccafruit · 2021-07-31T19:16:34+00:00

Just did this myself. Had my eye on a coworker for a while after I got out of a long relationship, finally made the jump. Chatted for a few minutes a couple times and asked her out. She had a boyfriend, but still felt good to know that I could do it. I don't see it as rejection, but practice. I had the whole "don't shit where you eat" mindset for the longest time, but there's a difference between asking someone for coffee and sending dick pics. As long as you keep it clean don't harass someone asking them out over and over, it's no big deal.

Alive-Doughnut2345 · 2021-07-31T08:22:31+00:00

Good job sir

Edit. You people and your fucking arbitrary downvotes need to fuck off

mannyjrod7 · 2021-08-02T15:16:55+00:00

Good job brother

Title	First approach - I did it!
Author	PatrickBoston-123
Upvotes	300
Comments	30
Date	July 31, 2021 7:31 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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