I might as well document this experience even if I wasn’t the one to initiate the conversation.

I was walking through downtown yesterday and I noticed a group ahead a fair distance in front of me just talking amongst themselves standing near the bus stop. It was 3 girls and 1 guy.

As I was getting closer, I noticed one girl in the group was watching me hard. After I passed the group, I saw her breaking her neck lol and then she’s like “Hey” and I turned around and looked at her and said hey back.

Then it was silence and the 4 of them were just looking at me. I felt so awkward so I’m like “how are you?” And she’s like, I saw you and I had to talk to you.

One friend was like “thank you for stopping and talking”. So then I was like “Are you going to offer me your number?” And we exchanged it.

I kept the interaction short because once again I felt awkward and that never happened to me before.

Let me tell you why I think this happened:

Over the last 4 months, I’ve been going to the gym religiously. Every day with like 1 or 2 day breaks each week. I went from a very thin/ skinny fat build to looking very broad and muscular. Also, I’ve been taking more care of my skin, hygiene, hair, etc.

If you want my advice, I suggest doing the same. Get in the gym. I’ve never received so many compliments and stares before. I was already doing good at night game but just evolving myself just made it even better. It’s not too late to improve yourself!