Last year I posted here about how depressed I was because of the fact that I was still a virgin at the age of 20 and had close to no friends. I was lost, heartbroken and very close to committing suicide because of loneliness. I had no idea where to even start, I had no social life whatsoever. So I decided it was time to make some big changes, first and most obvious getting out of your comfort zone. I started talking to new people, signed up with the meet up app and went to different meet ups so I can meet new people. I didn't just relied on Meetups I'd also talk to just anyone, any customer at work and people at cafes and restaurant. I got really good at keeping the conversation going and making others comfortable while talking to me for the first time. I also signed up for tinder and other dating sites. I went out with about 7 girls in first 3 months of joining all 7-9/10. But I never got a second date and some tried to friendzone me so I moved on. Of course by time I got better at it and started dating more and started getting second dates and more. Now I finally met this beautiful girl who has almost everything I looked for in a girl. Now I'm not a virgin anymore and most importantly for first time in a while I'm feeling more stable. I'm not saying loosing virginity made me stable, it's the life changes I made. Being more social, pursuing my goals and not getting attached to girls/people too quickly all played an important role. Everyone out there reading this, there's a hope my man. It just takes some time and effort. DONT GIVE UP :)