As a young guy in his early 20s in campus one thing that completely changed my success with women,was dropping my dumb ego.

Look, if you approach an objectively good looking woman, i can guarantee that she has many options. Being nonchalant, giving up after she flakes once or refusing to double text will keep you in a loop of constant self-inflicted rejection.

Furthermore, after you meet in person, she may find your personality more attractive than her other options. You get a chance to show haw smart, capable and interesting you are which is not possible when you have a big ego.

Heck, even when i had multiple options of women, i wouldnt give the 2nd best option a chance until the 1st option was unavailable, so lets cut each other some slack.

Look, dont tolerate disrespect , and know when to quit, but keep in mind that human connection is never black and white. This past week i literally got laid after a first date by a girl who i had to double text and is offline for 16 hours at a time sometimes. Remember, were all gonna die, just do whatever you want. Experience is the best teacher.