Just sharing a bit from my personal experiences of doing day game for close to 7 years. I’ve seen daygamers get fixated on only getting women’s phone numbers and when they look back on their weekly and monthly routines, they wonder why positive outcomes are so damn low.

I learned that in the frame of 5 mins of getting her number then saying goodbye, both promising each other to text and call are just part of GOODBYE RITUALS. There’s no accomplishment in that, unless you just wanna practice how to approach girls obviously then yeah that’s an accomplishment.

But in the end you know majority of them won’t reply to your text, wont answer your call. Why? Because to them you’re just a stranger with a face who happens to ask for their number. Just like those mormons who knocked on your door and you told them come back tomorrow at 5 then they’d have time to talk (newsflash: you won’t be home at 5).

This is why door to door sales people insist in getting into your house and ask for your time. They don’t want your numbers. They don’t want to be promised. They are fully aware they need to ride the momentum because “now” is the perfect time they and you are face to face. There might not be another time. Why creating another momentum when you already have it right there?

So what I always do is instead of focused on getting their numbers, in my conversations I always lead them to sit down with me and have a coffee in a nearby coffee shop or in a mall if I happen to be there, or have a small walk with me in a park for at least 15-20 mins. It gives her time to get to know me than me just as “a stranger with a face and his numbers in my phone”.

What if she doesn’t have time? Then skip her. I always assess whether she’s in a hurry or not, whether she’s wearing her headset or talking on her phone or not. Why wasting your and her time when you know most likely she won’t reply to your call the next day anyway. 5-7 sets weekly in my experiences give me close to 40-70% positive ones in average than 40-50 a week with less than 1% positive results. Quite a few times we did it right afterwards.

And besides, I don’t wanna fill my Contacts in my phone with hundreds of numbers I don’t recognize anyway. “Sandra who?” “Who’s this Abby?” “There are 3 Jennifers here, shit which one is she?” In your pov, you also only collect numbers with barely recognizable faces to remember. Yes the numbers game is important. But what’s quantity if there’s no quality? You are past that. You no longer practice on getting rid of fear and anxiety to talk to girls anymore. You now hone in on your skills in getting them to bed.

When she has at least 20-30 mins to spare with you by having some coffee or walk in the park, that gives you ample time to escalate, neg and do kino. Now you are more than a stranger with a face. At this point she has this awkward feeling that she just met you, but she feels like she’s known you forever and had a fling with you in the past.