Girlfriend constantly getting hit up by better looking guys than me.

Chrisanova_NY · 2019-05-30T05:31:18+00:00

At your age, there's only one solution.

If you don't know how to fight, you need to learn.

Oh, and yeah, if she's giving out her number to other guys, then you need to start dating other girls simultaneously.

Aureayte · 2019-05-30T04:26:10+00:00

Whys ur girl giving out her number to dudes that find her cute.

I would bring this up to her and tell her it's her job to shut that shit down from the beginning and tell these dudes she's not interested.

It's not your job to be doing this shit, you can't be around her 24/7 swatting away all the dick that comes her way.

If she doesn't start doing it then you should start talking to other girls

Chrisanova_NY · 2019-05-30T17:53:55+00:00

I have to re-post now.

There is RIDICULOUS advice coming from some people here.

The same way her desirability is causing YOU stress.....

Women are at their best behavior, and attentitiveness to you, when they feel YOU are desirable to other women, and that they may lose what greatness you bring into their life.

Simply telling her that she needs to tell the dudes to get lost.... IT WONT WORK.

Women LOVE having men fight over them. It makes her social value astronomical.

Even if she says she'll do it --- she WON'T !!! She's too young.

Get in shape, hit the gym, learn to fight.

DON'T fight on school grounds.

DO make sure witnesses are around to spread word. If you lose, at least you tried. If you win, people recognize.

Gain knowledge, get fit, dress better, talk to other girls, be cordial with everyone.....

Nothing is worse than going through life with fear, regrets, and self-loathing.

tomgjo · 2019-05-30T06:44:37+00:00

Prison rules bro. Motherfuckers r gonna try and steal your food. But If you fight the first dude trying to steal your food win or lose nobody’s going to try it again. Because they know if they want it, it’s not going to be worth the hassle of getting it

Also I understand your girlfriend is shy, but you need to put on the pants of the relationship and tell her not to entertain that shit. You’re only setting yourself up to get played.

zanto · 2019-05-30T06:54:05+00:00

If she really wants to sleep with them, she's going to do it regardless of what you do or say to her.

Here's what you need to do. Start messaging other girls. Always have back up options, even if you don't plan on doing anything with them. Your girl needs to know that you're not some simp desperate for her only. She needs to know that you're an attractive guy that other girls desire. She needs to know that you have options.

Stop messaging the guys and telling them what to do. It's your gf's job to ignore them. You need to let your gf know that you don't care, if she wants to sleep with them, whatever, the relationship is over and you can go fuck other girls.

Girls do not like desperate losers.

If you want to go the unethical route, then set up a fight and beat up these guys. If you overpower these guys in a fight, your girl will know you're the more dominant male who's reliable and able to protect her. She'll lose attraction to these guys.

charlesthe2 · 2019-05-30T05:15:29+00:00

You need to talk to your girl and tell her that you trust her to not give them the light of day and let them talk to her. My ex girlfriend immediately told them she had a boyfriend and wasn’t interested and if they continued bothering her she would tell me. I would then contact them and although I am peaceful and not a punk looking for fights I do have the advantage of being very large and intimidating so usually a polite text asking them to stop would do the trick. Other than that if you don’t trust her to be shutting these guys down then you might want to question the relationship in general.

tomgjo · 2019-05-30T18:34:10+00:00

You don’t know what she is or isn’t Brodie.

DriedUpPlum · 2019-05-30T18:37:35+00:00

Lot of bad advice here... what part of your post has to do with seduction. Just sounds like you are looking for an excuse to dump her or testosterone rage out on some bros.

What’s your beef with the guys?

Nothing will push her away farther than becoming obsessive and overbearing.

Chances are she is giving her number because it’s the easiest form of rejection a woman can perform to get a guy to move away. I know married women that are extremely faithful that will still do this.

If you are going to date attractive women it will happen. Who cares if men are trying to get into her pants? That just means you are dating an attractive woman!

Don’t fight them. If it bothers you that much than be the truly bigger man and walk away from him and her.

run_fast-eat_ass · 2019-05-31T11:39:01+00:00

I'm 17 mate but all you can do is trust your girl and openly hold her hand etc.

Diogonni · 2019-05-30T07:59:56+00:00

Be the man and step up to the plate and tell her she can’t give out her number to guys unless she tells you about it first and can’t “hang out” with guys one on one. She would have the same suspicions if you were flirting with other girls over text message and trying to hang out at their place.

SandmanEpic · 2019-05-30T04:28:10+00:00

Does anyone have any tips for me?

Lose the jealousy.

Title	Girlfriend constantly getting hit up by better looking guys than me.
Author	Renegader933
Upvotes	9
Comments	50
Date	May 30, 2019 4:16 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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