Going out tommorow. Any last advice?

wolfenstein1725 · 2017-02-16T23:06:00+00:00

*Talk to people throughout the day. Start by giving random compliments. *Approach girls during the day. Get over any approach anxiety. * Try not to rely on alcohol. Practice sober game. The day game will help with this. * Find a group of girls outside the club and approach in them in a casual manner, make up some shit about how your friends flaked but you really want to go out. Have them adopt you as their friend. Now you're entering the club with girls who you're cool with, hugging, laughing, ready to party. * Cold approach girls in the club . No other way around it.

This will at least get you the highest chances for success. The rest is up to you.

failatsomething · 2017-02-16T21:49:11+00:00

Go out tonight and talk someone :) That will get you in the social mood to go out and kill it tomorrow. Consider tonight your warm-up. I dare ya.

_TurnuptheSun_ · 2017-02-16T23:04:01+00:00

Well, the first thing to remember is not to put pressure on yourself to get laid, be it at clubs or anywhere else. Doing so means you're more likely to get upset with yourself if you don't score or get blown out.

The second thing you need to do is get comfortable talking to people, male and female. When you arrive,make the effort to talk to as many people as possible. Make eye contact and smile, introduce yourself, ask them questions. The focus here is getting out of your head and into a social mood; priming the engine for approaching girls you actually like

As for actually picking up girls. Go up and talk to them without any investment in the outcome, focus on having fun. You will probably get blown out in your opening sets, but that's okay, because you're just warming up and being social. If you want open sets you find unattractive just to get yourself going.

As for the sets themselves, just focus on having fun, saying whatever outrageous shit that comes into your head or makes you laugh. Make eye contact with girls on the dance floor and and pull them towards you. You'd be surprised how receptive girls are to this; clubs are crazy places. Here's a really good video on using self-amusement to pull at crazy venues: https://youtu.be/JFy6C0faDHE

Most importantly, remember that it doesn't matter how girls respond to you; you're hot shit, and if they don't know that it's their loss.

Bottom line is that it's better to focus on the process and YOU rather than the outcome and girl. The best pick up guys don't care if a girl likes them or not, because they know their own value and that their are loads more out there. These are the type of men women are attracted to, and if you play that part you'll start seeing the results you want .

yunggoat1999 · 2017-02-17T00:47:59+00:00

Dont fap

KawnN · 2017-02-17T21:51:37+00:00

My pwrsonal thoughts are if you are attractive and stnad there all alone you probably will get approached by a girl. If you get approached you just have to flirt with her and probably will start making out after 10-25mins.

If you are not that good looking then you may turn your night to a pracrice field where you get some shots and practice your game by approaching girls or groups. But pay attention which girls aee staring at you and start approaching them when they get alone.

brucebannerspanner · 2017-02-16T22:02:45+00:00

beer.

greenidiot314 · 2017-02-16T21:22:51+00:00

La la land might be a better flick to watch than 50 shades of Grey to "get in the mood." Although my last relationship was a disaster I need a good pick me up and 50 Shades Greyer will probably suffice.

Title	Going out tommorow. Any last advice?
Author	Blueeyesboi
Upvotes	6
Comments	12
Date	February 16, 2017 9:16 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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