How can I get “in state” faster?

Calamity__Bane · 2021-11-21T03:26:27+00:00

When you get an impulse to do something, like ask a question or adjust your posture, just roll with it.

wolfbee16 · 2021-11-21T03:00:22+00:00

Do what you gotta do. Takes me an afternoon to get into the flow, but honestly once I’m out having fun then approaching isn’t so bad.

Impressive_Sport_713 · 2021-11-21T04:32:38+00:00

Do whatever it takes to get those baby steps in. After awhile it'll get somewhat better. I've done it over 1000 times and it's still tough for me. This stuff ain't easy so don't ever be too hard on yourself

foxxdan · 2021-11-21T20:28:37+00:00

being "in state" is some bullshit peddles by RSD. If you aren't in a confident mood or feeling too chatty it's okay, you can still talk and be more chill. Just listen to your emotions.

You can't be 'in state' 24/7 so how do people talk to girls at grocery stores or just walking down the street?

As soon as I ditched these weird terms and ditched RSD my results skyrocketed

kamazoultane · 2021-11-21T08:57:06+00:00

Really really not sure but maybe it is because you struggle to focus. If you think that's the problem, maybe start doing meditation and reading. Reading is a good way of gaining focus. With these exercices, you will be focused stronger, quicker and longer. Maybe also learn things about the flow state (the state where you are completely focused).

JacobMoogberg69 · 2021-11-21T07:30:02+00:00

Getting into state is a fallacy. It assumes that there is a place you need to get to in order to be attractive. It's not a place it's who you are. It just means you don't feel good enough about yourself.

Liberaler · 2021-11-21T17:59:10+00:00

This question is not specific enough. There is not only one 'state', there are countless states for different activities.

But in general:

watch your social energy level. Avoid things that drain your social energy. (e. g too much phone/computer) Do things that increase it.
practice having small talk every day - with cashiers at a shop, your co-workers, random people on the street

UrFavPlayerIsBack · 2021-11-21T05:58:33+00:00

Use helicopter

Renatus45 · 2021-11-21T16:23:49+00:00

Yoga

Title	How can I get “in state” faster?
Author	maplemario
Upvotes	19
Comments	16
Date	November 21, 2021 1:55 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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