How can i keep her interested

DaygameCode · 2024-08-21T02:54:32+00:00

You keep her interested, by meeting up with her, go in on a date and having sex with her. Not by talking forever with nothing ever happening.

AngryGoose21 · 2024-08-21T02:53:56+00:00

fighting for interest is never worth it

liftingnstuff · 2024-08-21T02:56:20+00:00

Talking to a woman for a month without meeting up is a waste of time

Normal-Pollution2293 · 2024-08-21T06:29:38+00:00

Make her laugh, plan dates, have sex, and be a little unpredictable sometimes just to keep her guessing. For example just planing fun shit for you to do with friends that she’s not included in but hears about. Also inviting her out where she can see you being social with other people, especially other women. Cause then she can see that other people like and respect you as well making you more of a catch.

IGetBoredSometimes23 · 2024-08-21T04:47:14+00:00

Go date other women. Either she'll get interested or you'll stop caring.

appolonysian · 2024-08-21T03:25:50+00:00

Meet up with her wtf? You should never be talking frivolously for a month

berzerker5000 · 2024-08-21T04:44:34+00:00

They are loosing attraction to you because your seduction skills and frame is off.

burncushlikewood · 2024-08-21T06:32:24+00:00

Dude she probably thinks of you as a friend because you haven't asked her out or defined some kind of relationship, man up and ask her out. If you want to keep a romantic spark you need to create rapport, chemistry, and the most important thing, space, all relationships function when you give each other space

VrilHunter · 2024-08-21T11:16:50+00:00

Oneitis. Again and again.

CharmingRejector · 2024-08-21T15:34:17+00:00

how do I keep (her) interested?

Short answer: You don't.

If you haven't had sex with her after the second or third date, then it's never going to happen. Just accept it and move on.

Keep her as a friend if you are able to stand it, though most aren't and for good reason. If you keep meeting her, prepare to either hear her talk about other guys or worse, start flirting with, and dating them instead of you. For me, that's a fate worst than death. If you're able to stand that level of cuckery, then be my guest, but for me personally; well let's just say it's not my cup of tea (been there, done that).

Your biggest problem: Neediness and fear of loss. Plus, now that you've talked to her for so long, you've got sunk cost bias as well. That is the belief that you are more entitled to something because you've invested a lot (in this case time) into it.

So, how do you rebound? By making sure that you never only talk to just one woman at a time. Talk to multiple. This is why the GFTOW abbreviation exists. Google it. So always make sure to meet new women.

Moreover, she will notice that you are talking to other women, which will subtly subcommunicate to her that it's up to her to compete. And compete they will! Which also helps you relax more, because you've got more stuff going on that just that one woman.

While you're at it, invest in your hobbis and your job too. Get an interesting life. Women love interesting guys, and you do that by doing interesting activities. Not for women, but for yourself.

All the best!

Wait, one more thing! Also learn to escalate things a lot sooner. Women are essentially horny swine, and they want it way sooner than most boys are brought up to believe. When you don't deliver when they expect you to, that's when they lose interest. It's always better to try for a kiss too early, than not at all. Bcos then you at least had the balls to try, and secretly all women want is a guy with balls.

JimBroTRT · 2024-08-21T15:40:51+00:00

Here is something that will change your life: figure out how to get women to be worried about keeping you interest.

Skarnor · 2024-08-27T04:48:15+00:00

Bro list the time you ask her on a date.

Title	How can i keep her interested
Author	Roubrim
Upvotes	6
Comments	16
Date	August 21, 2024 2:20 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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