How can I kill my ego?

Rhoads91 · 2015-06-03T01:05:27+00:00

How has no one said meditation? Tyler Durden of RSD has fantastic videos on this. Just search his name and meditation on youtube.

cmcrae12 · 2015-06-02T22:31:18+00:00

Acid. Lot and lots of acid.

freekorgeek · 2015-06-03T00:45:17+00:00

I assume he means ego in the sense that he has a fear of rejection. He's protecting his ego by not approaching her.

thekidbass · 2015-06-03T06:35:19+00:00

You're too invested in other people's opinions of yourself.

Big_TX · 2015-06-03T13:23:18+00:00

Force yourself to approach. There are no other ways here. Some things in life you either push through and DO or forever do not.

lookslikeyoureSOL · 2015-06-03T00:05:23+00:00

Five grams of dried psilocybin mushrooms in silent darkness is a 110% sure way to kill your ego.

acetokyo · 2015-06-03T01:43:28+00:00

You just have to practice. You have to build up confidence. Start my approaching people within your network that you will not be awkward approaching.

And also try to approach people with the mindset that you will get rejected and you want to learn from the reason you will. After awhile, rejection means nothing but part and parcel of the learning experience. I get rejected by girls on a weekly basis. But I also score on a weekly basis. So, just do it, progressively.

secondpua · 2015-06-03T07:10:49+00:00

This is just a belief thing. Look into yourself and ask why you didn't approach. Was it because there was people around and they may think that you're weird for doing so? or maybe you were afraid that she would reject you? Or maybe you were wearing the colour blue and you thought that she didn't like guys who liked wearing blue. Whatever it is work it out then follow these steps to destroy that belief.

Highlight the belief that you have, eg women don't like me because of <x> or I didn't approach because she thinks <x>
Understand the damage of the belief AKA What is it costing me in my life?
Give it a silly voice - say the belief to yourself in a voice as if it is your little sister/nephew/someone whose opinion you think "oh isn't that cute" to take away it's power
Re frame the belief - eg Every woman likes different things. Some do like guys like me. I just have to find them.
Find reference experiences - Find reference experience where other guy who have succeeded in that particular scenario and think, Ok they are the same as me so if they can do it then there is no reason why I can not.

chiliehead · 2015-06-03T12:42:28+00:00

I did not want to approach her

I don't have AA

Oh yes, you have. Nothing bad about it, everyone has it. This girl wanted you to approach, she made it easy. Still you didn´t talk to her. That´s AA.

Become outcome independent. Don´t be afraid of rejection. It happens. Probably more than you like. But you only will have success if you use every opportunity to approach.

killaswagyolo420 · 2015-06-03T01:18:12+00:00

Tell yourself to stop being a pussy, that not approaching is weaker in her eyes than even the weakest approach...

then refer to Nike's slogan.

cmo88 · 2015-06-03T16:38:41+00:00

I found a good way to take your ego down a few pegs happens when you can laugh at yourself when you do something stupid. I never take myself too seriously.

guop · 2015-06-03T00:17:26+00:00

2 hours and no serious replies...i'll keep on waiting though.

Kleszcz87 · 2015-06-02T23:00:00+00:00

Find Enlightenment.

Fir3start3r · 2015-06-03T01:06:43+00:00

It's not ego you're worried about, it's rejection.
And the only solution is to just do it.
You are going to get rejections, you just need to get over it.

mwandazimu · 2015-06-03T00:21:19+00:00

How exactly did your ego stop you in this particular situation? I mean if you said "I didn't approach her because I think she isn't good enough for me", that would be your ego.

Title	How can I kill my ego?
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Upvotes	14
Comments	28
Date	June 2, 2015 9:44 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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