I always hear the same shit, you gotta love yourself before you can love anyone else.

I've had women not date me because they see that I don't love myself.

My logic is that it's never easy to love yourself because you always see what you hate about yourself, that easier to love someone else because you only see what you love about them.

I've been working on bettering myself, physically and mentally. I've been ignoring girls, working out, etc, but this is something that has always been really hard for me. I've always struggled with really low self esteem, and even though I've never looked better in my life, I still have problems having any confidence.

What can I do to get over this shit? I feel like such a fucking loser.