How do I become more masculine?

the_life_is_good · 2016-05-26T15:18:20+00:00

START BOXING GRIZZLY BEARS AND HUNTING LASER SHARKS AND SHIT

not really

The way I see it, just be the man you want to be. There is nothing manlier than being who you want to be regardless of whatever the fuck anyone else thinks. That is truly being a man.

NameOfAction · 2016-05-26T11:20:31+00:00

Read the Way of the Superior Man. Short easy book woth so much good information.

StevieBoyB · 2016-05-26T22:40:11+00:00

Most of it is role models dude. Society has become metro sexualised and this does men no favours in getting laid. There's loads of films with proper masculine role models and guys on YouTube: Fight Club, Pulp Fiction, 300 + guys like Dan Pena/Donald Trump on Youtube. If you watch a load of that shit it'll rub off subconsciously. This is more powerful as you become what you surround yourself with, so instead of trying to walk/talk more masculine you'll feel more masculine and it'll just exude itself more naturally.

123usernametaken · 2016-05-26T18:05:11+00:00

Contact sports is very good, atleast some kind of male bonding if you are used to having mostly female friends.

Fenor · 2016-05-26T10:05:15+00:00

raise your self confidence.

DirkDieGurke · 2016-05-26T15:19:39+00:00

Tao of Badass on YouTube will give you all the basics you need. It's not the most popular series with /r/seduction but like I said, it includes the critical basics and will give you a decent base to start from.

recyclablebanthas · 2016-05-27T05:19:12+00:00

Most of my friends are female, and at the same time I have trouble with women seeing me in a romantic way. What haven't I tried? What else can i do?

You can try being yourself. The issue is not so much your public speaking chops, though it doesn't hurt that you've worked on this.....

You've left out almost any information that could shed light on the situation here:

How far are you getting in the process?
How are you meeting girls? How long are you waiting to ask them out, try to kiss them, etc.?
At what point are you having issues?

Offhand though, I'd hazard a guess that you're waiting too long and becoming friends before trying to out moves on a girl or ask one out.

EDIT: Generally speaking, if you're not asking a girl out within the first 1-4 weeks, and trying to escalate in some clear way while out one on one with her, then you're friend zoning yourself. (There are exceptions, but taking initiative is never a bad thing.)

It's great to have the skill of making friendship connections. That's one half of seduction. The important half you're missing, apparently, is escalation.

katalis · 2016-05-26T18:05:54+00:00

Define masculine. Because if you are thinking about a caveman that is not cool.

Title	How do I become more masculine?
Author	noregretlife
Upvotes	6
Comments	16
Date	May 26, 2016 8:11 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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