After getting back in the game I've been having decent success for the past couple of months- I'm at a point where I have very little approach anxiety and been having a very high success rate (at least for club/night game, which is the only arena I'm currently utilizing, I would certainly like to change that, but that's for another thread). Anyway, on to my point: Recently when talking with a friend about a girl I had been meeting and making out with while out a couple of times but I somehow never manage to close he told me that I might sometimes come of a bit too confident about the whole pickup thing and that I'd be perceived as a player and that it might make some hesitate. Anyway, while thinking about it it occurred to me that it most definitely is a leak in my game, but I'm kinda at a loss on how to counter it?

On a girl to girl basis I imagine I should probably do more of the push side of the push-pull thing so that it's in a way more the girl taking the lead?

Anyway, id like to hear how do you avoid the "player" stamp, and how you deal with it when you feel that you might be perceived that way?