How do you close?

CocoBabeinNYC · 2022-09-07T14:47:27+00:00

What advice do you expect other than just do it?

Reasonable-Low4120 · 2022-09-07T17:56:39+00:00

1)Eye contact 2)Slow kissing - always keep it slow 3)Booby touching 4)Run your hands down her inner thighs 5)Circular motion on the clit. The TOP of the clit. The lower part isn't the money maker. Also be gentle with that. Don't press too hard. Why you guys always pressing so hard? 6)Grab her ass like you mean it

NinetailsDestruction · 2022-09-07T14:48:38+00:00

It’s because these women can feel your intention. They know you did all that just to get to that point. It’s quite interesting they picked up on it so late, or maybe they had a feeling during the interaction. The ones that did like you, probably actually liked you from the beginning of the interaction, as opposed to the ones that reject you. It’s not a sale but a person you are dealing with, things can change in milliseconds. Deals aren’t always guaranteed in these situations.

Canadian-Seductioner · 2022-09-07T16:21:41+00:00

Layed next to each other on the ground (far enough away that I didn’t feel like there was room to make a move without being awkward as fuck)

It's only awkward if you make it awkward. Ideally, you ask her to sit on the couch with you and then just go for the kiss then, but if you're in a situation like the one you just described here, all you have to do is make the damn move. Doesn't really matter how far away you are, just get close to her and kiss her. If you continue to think it's awkward when you do it though, then you will manifest that awkwardness. It's a mindset thing, thinking things are awkward is a choice so stop choosing it.

zapadz · 2022-09-07T17:26:56+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W1uucwvSpw0

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fzKZeaCa9lc

TalkShit247 · 2022-09-07T14:20:29+00:00

Damn thats all good chemistry .. whenever i went on dates and the chemistry is all good then at the end of the night im pulling her toward me to kiss the shit outta her .. i was always right too because ive heard girls say things like “i thought you were never gonna kiss me” or “i was wondering what took you so long to kiss me” or “its about fucking time you kissed me” .. its called kiss her Op .. yes, be a man and stop being scared of girls lol

revente · 2022-09-07T15:17:52+00:00

Here's a step by step foreplay manual.

Initiate early.

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/hlmra/dicarlo_escalation_ladder_concise_and_emphasized/

A_Rabid_Doge · 2022-09-07T14:28:20+00:00

I struggle at that point too. But you've gotta remember that unless she's a really naive silly girl, if she's in your place then she's down to fuck.

Try doing some kind of activity which initiates physical contact, it can go from there much easier. Some kind of fast card game where your hands touch will work.

dump_fool · 2022-09-07T16:18:16+00:00

Layed next to each other on the ground

How about you look at her and allow yourself to get aroused by her beauty-express your desire by starting touching her, kissing her...wiping your stiff dick out and start fucking her...

Quantum physics complexity :))

manifess · 2022-09-08T01:38:27+00:00

Just do it awkward or not, sorted.

appolonysian · 2022-09-08T03:58:46+00:00

There’s this fucked up sense of “being ashamed for wanting to fuck” some dudes have in scenarios like yours, leading to your problem. Sometimes you gotta be bold. That is to say: invite her back to your place or see if she’ll let you visit hers.

Nullroute127 · 2022-09-08T07:18:32+00:00

It sounds like you want a more gradual approach to getting to sex, and that the gap between her/your place and the bedroom is too large. I agree with you.

Find excuses to touch. If you notice her brushing her hair (a sign of interest in and of itself), you can call this out, "We need to get you a hair tie" as you brush her hair for her with your hand.

When she was dealing tarot cards, you can stop her hand (assertively, but gently) and PLAYFULLY accuse her of false/bottom dealing, "I caught you trying to force fate with that bottom deal" as you raise up her hand with the deck and hold it at the top, imagining you're pinning her hand to a wall above her head (or actually if you can do it without hurting her), leaning in closer with your lips. However, just before you make contact, you reach for the card that's on the bottom with your free hand. Try for a flirty comment with whatever you get, "The Devil eh? I knew you were up to no good!" as you pull your face back. You've just built a ton of sexual tension - it also shows that you're in control of yourself and the situation. This kind of tension actually causes her to relax. Maybe you place the devil on your shoulder and voice what you want to have happen next.

If it makes sense, like you had a drink spilled on you, or it was a hot day and you walked a bit, "I feel like I need to freshen up, can I use your shower?" You'll basically never hear a no to this if you've gotten this far. "I might cleaner if you join me." Also, for some women the concrete knowledge that you're clean just melts away resistance. Don't know why but it does.

Obviously, I can't give you an exhaustive list. You just need to give yourself permission to try whatever hair brained idea you got. Use the environment and context to provide an excuse to touch and escalate.

focus_flow69 · 2022-09-08T16:35:49+00:00

Your perception of what's awkward and what's not is wrong.

Laying there and not escalating when she's expecting you to is awkward. Actually attempting to make a move despite not being 100% moment perfect is NOT awkward.

You only feel it's awkward because it's the easy you tell yourself to avoid the risk of rejection. No escalation = no risk of rejection which means your ego stays in tact. Ya gotta get over the risk of rejection and accept it.

Title	How do you close?
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Date	September 7, 2022 2:12 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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