How do you come up with observational/indirect opener?

Back2theCouture · 2026-08-02T17:42:57+00:00

Omg you again lol.

You seem to have a difficulty to grasp the concept.

Here lemme help you with the youtube video you had posted in your other comment:

https://youtube.com/shorts/orQEMZC-Y9M?is=nTVJLJgDk75T0Avc

Imagine you’re walking toward these 2 girls and thinking of approaching them. What do you see on them? Like I told you the other day, train your mind to have actual thoughts whenever you see something/someone.

Just from the 4-5 seconds of this video you could make at least 4-5 observational openers. Pause the video if you need to in first few seconds, so both of them are in the frame. Give it a try, give us some observational openers as if you were the one who approached them, not the guy in the video.

Nervous-Arrogance · 2026-08-02T20:44:14+00:00

Anyway, I still think you are trolling, but anyway here is yet ANOTHER exercise, for you to ignore and just endlessly ask the same question over and over again.

Go somewhere with lots of people, sit on a bench and do some people watching. Thats it.... start paying interest to what is happening around you...

Like what’s going on in your head when you come up with it?

This is the point... for me, there is NOTHING going on inside my head. I am external, so I am focussed on what is happening around me, not what is happening in my head.

The only way (I personally believe) to reach this point, is not some magical formula that I think you are looking for, but to make it a habit, until it becomes natural.

Independent-Bad218 · 2026-08-02T17:26:17+00:00

Say what you see and twist it - observational (direct if you comment something on her)

Indirect opener - can be anything, either prepared or spontaneous. You can even talk about the weather

But, the girl will assess you based on how much she fancies you. There is no indirect opener magic here. She will respond in precise direct proportion and engagement based on how much attractive she finds you (and secondly how busy she is).

All opens are direct (or sexual opens). The pretext and plausible deniability is the only thing that distinguishes them (what you call polite or indirect), but in truth of the matter, the response is measured only on one axis (the sexual one)

Nervous-Arrogance · 2026-08-02T19:42:50+00:00

Are you just a troll?

Realwoujo · 2026-08-04T01:06:46+00:00

Indirect openers are for losers. Just go up to them and give a compliment. That's the only opener you need.

Title	How do you come up with observational/indirect opener?
Author	Best_Marzipan_7774
Upvotes	4
Comments	14
Date	August 2, 2026 4:48 PM UTC (1 week ago)
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