How do you dodge a grenade?

yokhai · 2011-01-19T16:05:57+00:00

You are worrying about the wrong things. Girls you don't want to attract are just people. They won't destroy your game, and most likely they will help in the long run.

The only time to be picky is when you are doing the picking. Cougars are great fun to party with, don't be a skeerd.

Make a group thing out of it. This isn't like the Savannah where grenades are alerting your targets of your presence. You have nothing to fear from girls you aren't into.

absolutebeginners · 2011-01-19T17:30:09+00:00

Please lets not spread this jersey shore terminology.

Otherwise, ask them to introduce you to, and keep talking about meeting their daughters. This will get rid of them

ThrowawayPUA · 2011-01-19T19:53:53+00:00

You never dodge a grenade. You throw yourself on top of it, to prevent the shrapnel from killing the rest of your squad. That sort of action will get you the Medal of Honor.

jagermeistr · 2011-01-19T15:56:14+00:00

Why not learn from the pros of rejection- women.

"I'm flattered but I have a girlfriend".

Don't pull that friend thing. I've been on the receiving end of a 300lbs black womens ass because of a friend who did that.

philosarapter · 2011-01-19T17:11:11+00:00

Let them talk to you, be distracted and then wander off and start talking to a girl you are actually interested in. A girl loves it when a man that is constantly being hit on stops abruptly and comes directly up to her.

insickness · 2011-01-19T18:42:53+00:00

I'm guessing your not asking how you can use these older women to meet women that you are attracted to. It seems these women are too aggressive and you can't shake them when you need to.

What is the worst type of response a guy can get when he opens a girl? No response is the worst response. A guy cannot work with that.

The most effective way for a woman to show disinterest in a man is silence. If she says anything or shows any kind of emotion--even negative emotion--the guy can use that to continue to game her.

That's what you need to use with these women who are too aggressive.

It's difficult to just ignore someone when they use an indirect opener "what drinks are good here?" but your best bet is to slightly acknowledge that you've heard her, e.g. just shrug your shoulders, and don't give her any verbal fodder with which she can continue the interaction.

If she's that aggressive then you don't need to feel bad harshly rejecting her like that. It's the only way. Playing nice will just serve to pro-long the interaction.

hammertime1070 · 2011-01-19T19:38:28+00:00

You gotta put the hippopotamus to bed

nateking1 · 2011-01-19T17:14:54+00:00

I'm just interested, I've never been grabbed by a women in a bar. Age, race, location?

frogma · 2011-01-19T18:46:13+00:00

You probably don't have to ditch her at all man. Converse with her for a bit so you can keep her around for later. Keep it friendly. If she's truly ugly or not your type, and you absolutely NEED to get away from her- I've been there- treat her like the annoying friend. Keep up a bare minimum of conversation, answer with one-word anwers, and basically ignore her otherwise. She'll get the hint.

2011-01-19T19:41:59+00:00

Lol, can you imagine if an older guy did that to a younger girl? Oh, double standards abound.

It's only a double standard if YOU behave in that way. Why don't you react just like the younger girl would, what are you afraid of?

Women have lots of experience rejecting people, so if they're going to get butthurt after being rejected (especially after putting themselves out on a limb like that), then fuck 'em.

VoodooD2 · 2011-01-19T21:25:01+00:00

Dance your way off the floor.

chebb · 2011-01-19T22:20:13+00:00

I don't know how strong your default game (ie. how cool a person you come off as), but maybe being more active and emitting more energy might be an area to experiment with. Ie. Spend less time in the same location, less time talking to people but talk to more people, kino in, make them laugh and move on. Then when you get someone you actually like, isolate them in such a way that it's obvious what you're doing if someone tries to look for you, and it's not accessible for them to talk to you anyway.

Again, haven't had this problem with older women, so just speculating, I have had the issue with people my own age though and it's an annoying prickly issue to deal with.

Listro · 2011-01-19T23:11:43+00:00

Older guys try to do it to girls all the fucking time. It's not called double standards it's called life
I can see a woman's interest increasing if she sees other women all over you.
Just think of all the creative ways women have avoided you or people you know. That should be a good start for suggestions
I would give suggestions, but all the ones I think of probably fit in #3

Mouthpiece · 2011-01-20T04:59:28+00:00

The issue is escaping from women who nearly corner you on the dance floor or drag you out there when you don't want to dance with them.

"Thanks, but I'm not looking to dance right now."

What kind of pussy is afraid to say no to a woman he doesn't want to dance with? Don't be that pussy.

(Here's a Courage Wolf for those of you who are into that sort of thing.)

ManFromTheInternet · 2011-01-19T16:47:04+00:00

You don't 'lose them'. You befriend them because these 'grenades' more than likely have hot friends that you'll want to bang.

Flirt with them, it doesn't mean you have to take them home. Make them want you, because when their hot friend comes around, or hot neice, or hot daughter, you'll see how attitudes can be contagious.

Title	How do you dodge a grenade?
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Date	January 19, 2011 3:51 PM UTC (15 years ago)
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