How do you setup a second date especially if you didn't sleep with them on the first date?

Commercial_Income754 · 2025-02-05T17:46:47+00:00

"Hey, I had fun last time. you free this ((time))? I'd love to go with you to ((Place))." is a good attempt, right..?

YinMaestro · 2025-02-05T17:52:47+00:00

I think you're putting too much pressure to sleep within a number of dates. I think it's perfectly okay to even go on a first date without a kiss if both of yall were nervous, doesn't mean the date went bad.

2nd date if you really believe she's down to sleep with you, I would test it with going out first maybe for some drinks and dinner and then talking about ur interests, whether it's guitar/movies/some cool rock collection, u then ask her if she wants to come see XXXXXX and she usually gets the memo.. if she refuses she's not comfortable with u yet.

MeaningImmediate5486 · 2025-02-05T17:28:25+00:00

This one is hard for me. That’s why I make sure I’m extra forward on the first date. If I can sleep with a woman on a first date, I have really good success getting a second date.

PM_Teeny_Titties · 2025-02-05T17:41:26+00:00

If the first date is going well, set it up before the end of the night.

"This has been great, and I would hate myself if I went home without already having plans to see you again."

FriendlyWrenChilling · 2025-02-06T03:38:09+00:00

Do a home cooking date

Quantic316 · 2025-02-06T06:56:27+00:00

What?

You just ask them on a second date, what does sleeping with them have to do with anything.

You literally just organise a second date the way you organised the first

7asas · 2025-02-05T18:58:22+00:00

I usually took girls on a first date. I would plan and take them out. After a date I would ask if they liked it, and if they are down for another one. Just to avoid wasting my time on someone not interested and being flaked on. This way, girls tend to be pretty open if they liked me or not. And this is it. If they are down for another date, I would plan something and ask them out next time.

Dandys3107 · 2025-02-06T09:09:47+00:00

I guess the thing is to continue with a tone that you are already close with each other. Suggest some warmup activities or a private space where you can easily get even more intimate with each other.

PrinceDestin · 2025-02-06T20:58:10+00:00

Bro just get on facetime mention a place you want to go and be like let’s go there

Title	How do you setup a second date especially if you didn't sleep with them on the first date?
Author	HedgehogOk3756
Upvotes	10
Comments	15
Date	February 5, 2025 5:24 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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