How does one start dating? Is not having experience a turn off?

spiderSlayerr · 2022-04-19T19:45:42+00:00

Who tf cares about your experience. If you aren’t a weirdo who struggles communicating then no one will care

drewcer · 2022-04-19T21:10:22+00:00

Not having experience isn’t a bad thing or a deal breaker for most girls though having it is definitely an advantage. The best way to get experience is to just get it.

I’d say you should make it your goal to get as much experience as you can as early as possible. Why would you date after college? You have so many more girls available to you now. They’re literally all over.

when the opportunity will present itself

It’s not going to. You have to make it happen.

Neo-Rio · 2022-04-20T01:15:45+00:00

Find an older woman. Plenty of them in their 30s who would love a boy toy.

Women really come into their sexual selves in their late 20s early 30s - as they know that their window of opportunity to have children is slowly running down. They'll do most anything you want in the sack and let you experiment. That should get you some confidence.

This is in stark contrast to the early 20-somethings who have a massive amount of male attention and are acting like prissy attention-whores and teases as they don't know what to do with a real man yet. They think they have endless opportunities for male attention and it will last forever.

ferretkona · 2022-04-19T20:52:39+00:00

Just start talking, make a friend first. Invite out for coffee, keep it light and listen to her/him. The learning experience can be fun, confusing and frustrating all at the same time but worth it.

AtCloseRange94 · 2022-04-19T22:23:37+00:00

20 isn’t that bad with no experience, I’d suggest not mentioning it unless you’re specifically asked tho.

Alternative_Title384 · 2022-04-20T00:56:58+00:00

I suggest to enjoy the college time because in my opinion they are the best, once you start working you will most likely have less friends (maybe not) to go out with and you will probably be looking in dating app or a coworker (which is not the best option), please don’t waste the years of college, enjoy it as much as possible!

Star__boy · 2022-04-20T09:52:50+00:00

You probably won't ever have opportunities with less effort after college. Once you start working etc you have to make an effort to structure your dating life with not as much time. Just join various societies. An underrated one is the 'international society', which has really attractive foreign women. I guarantee there is a society for whatever interests you. Put yourself out there by talking to people regardless of how it goes. College is a great opportunity for dating, don't let it go to waste.

passengerpigeon20 · 2022-04-20T15:47:12+00:00

If the girl cares about you having previous experience, lie to her. Only if she asks though - don’t fabricate a story right off the bat.

Ectoplasmic1984 · 2022-04-23T05:49:08+00:00

25 seems to be the starting age number in which people start to panic the most about this

Title	How does one start dating? Is not having experience a turn off?
Author	Winter-Ad4378
Upvotes	13
Comments	15
Date	April 19, 2022 7:27 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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