How to approach women ?

Evacipate628 · 2022-04-04T21:24:57+00:00

This is the biggest bit of advice I can give you: don't be afraid of rejection. Embrace it...

Any man you see with a woman you desire got there by failing miserably more times than you'd believe. The difference is that such men don't let their ego get in the way and use the experience to learn what works and what doesn't.

There are billions of women in this world and in the end it's a numbers game but the odds are vastly in your favor. So long as you can get over your pride when 1, 5, even 100 females reject you because that's nothing in the grand scheme of what's out there. Even if your rejection to success ratio is 50:1, that's still 1 opportunity you can achieve with enough patience, confidence and dedication.

Go out, practice, make a game of it, make a fool of yourself, strike out, get eyes rolled at you, have fake numbers given to you, etc. But learn from it. Don't give up or take things personally because it's not about you when you get rejected, it's about them. Don't put females on a pedestal but also don't treat them like sub humans you're just trying to get something from. Act like you have everything you need just by being with yourself until you believe it and they will too.

Females are biologically and evolutionarily programmed to be attracted to a mate that is strong just like males are programmed to be attracted to beautiful, fertile females. That doesn't mean you have to hit the gym, but you need to work out your psychological muscles. They want someone that will be emotionally stable and confident. You can't give them that if you are afraid of their rejection or appear to be seeking anyone's approval or validation, especially theirs.

Good luck!

onsutain · 2022-04-04T21:48:29+00:00

For starters stop watching porn. That’s why you freak out just from talking to girls.

letmereaddamnit · 2022-04-05T05:10:38+00:00

Aight I'm going to tell you what works. Just go out there and talk to then, and not with the goal of getting laid. Pick something and say it. The best way to get over your fear and anxiety is to face it. Ask her to handle your ham candle or something, get her to laugh or whatever. It's going to be God awful difficult but this is the only way.

Right-Dot-4752 · 2022-04-05T11:28:48+00:00

I agree with 'you have to feel comfortable in your own skin eg. If u go out and about and dress like someone you saw in a magazine but you don't feel comfortable but go for it anyway. You won't feel good so won't look good.

Therocksays2020 · 2022-04-04T21:02:14+00:00

You have to have hobbies and interest besides going to the gym.

TempAcc64 · 2022-04-05T11:25:26+00:00

You're 19, relax and don't stress, keep up the gym. See if your gym is hosting any events. Strike up conversations, talk with others about your gym goals. Also you're in college your the school probably has groups you can join since the pandemic is ending

AggravatingBreath944 · 2022-04-05T11:30:16+00:00

Why is everyone in these posts 19 years old?

Outrageous_Garage696 · 2022-04-04T21:01:23+00:00

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incognito3107 · 2022-04-05T06:03:23+00:00

If you know nothing, you should make plenty of your own studies before approaching for detailed conversation. I guarantee you there is more than enough theory material to learn really crucial info about picking up women easily available throughout internet.

ClassicFew6499 · 2022-04-05T12:07:56+00:00

Women destroy life yours

Stay fit reject women be strong

Confusion606 · 2022-04-05T09:12:00+00:00

Try talking to them online there’s plenty of dating apps that’ll match you with someone in your area

H8beingmale · 2022-04-07T02:41:20+00:00

thats why there is an entire dating coach or pua industry that only seems to be growing or expanding

Title	How to approach women ?
Author	Outrageous_Garage696
Upvotes	26
Comments	22
Date	April 4, 2022 8:57 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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