How to be a "cute" guy and seduce?

norwegianmorningw00d · 2017-07-24T07:32:59+00:00

Confident mindset
Good posture
Develop that "sexy smile"
Strong eye contact
Speak slower to women
Speak from your chest (deeper voice)
Don't be serious, but also don't be a clown, learn how to be in between
Don't be needy (i.e. don't look to seek her approval, stick to your principles)
Women like a man who is driven/ passionate at something
Show intent early on
Don't be a nice guy
Learn how to escalate quickly
Touch her early on to quickly build that sexual attraction (could be a handshake, etc)
Learn how to flirt sexually (not friendly)
Learn how to communicate (witty comebacks/ statements, playful teasing, statements over questions for the most part, don't be afraid to make sexual: bold innuendos/ statements, role play, role reversing, etc)
Be mysterious, don't reveal all your cards from the get go; women like the chase, the mystery

IntrovertSigma · 2017-07-24T11:38:16+00:00

Smile sparingly.

savagesteve_13 · 2017-07-24T05:49:16+00:00

Dress well, dress maturely and avoid wearing anything that feminises you.

Kenic_In_MD · 2017-07-24T06:13:03+00:00

Fellow baby face here. Nothing you can do but dress in a style that suits you better, hit the gym (especially with our body types). There are standards that "all girls want, click here!!" sure. But you are you, be proud of that and approach. Don't set some default of what you think she wants mentally. You are shooting yourself in the foot.

If you can make her laugh you are already more than halfway into her pants. Remember that you don't always have to be a jokester either. That's how you avoid being the clown.

falshami · 2017-07-24T07:45:08+00:00

OK my 2 cents. Your stature . at least in your case is seriously not an issue. I'll start off by saying we will never be everyone's cup of tea. I'm 5 10 and I know that in some cases a girl that wants 6 2 wont look at me. However.I also realize I have a personality. And its one I develop and am learning to enjoy more and more every day and with that comes confidence.I genuinely like myself these days. Flaws and all. This is important to have. Because it leads to the next thing I feel. Which is a sense of self respect. I know I don't have to chase people. I know I want good people with value around me. And so I know that when I talk to people I am to an extent deciding if I want them around me or not. Because I own who I am I get to choose who I want around me. This comes off as confident. Because you understand your value and portray it in a non arrogant way. It comes off as swagger almost.all of this comes from knowing you and liking you. To put this into perspective. After talking to the last 4 girls I've met and started casually dating without prompting they said to me they liked me because I came off as an alpha male. Or someone who can lead and direct .I attribute this to simply liking myself and respecting my time and that of others. I am not a huge jacked guy. If anything I considered myself a fairly underwhelming dude of average build. But I work on that as well which also really helps my self esteem. Like every guy I still get nervous on approach. I still wonder will that super hottie want the big jacked guy? Then I remember. It doesn't matter because I'm pretty cool and I like me and chances are she will too (always assume attraction). Next some of my closest friends of which have landed more women then I will ever meet have been between 5 6 and 5 8 and it wasn't until I asked them what their height was that i realized. Their personalities were so large and charming and confident that I had automatically assumed they were much taller than they were. They just own it. And never find the need to mention it. So buck up! There is hope for us all! Plus remember. It's what we are built to do ;)

P.s all of these girls have called me cute at some point. That progresses to sexy or hot as you escalate. Cute tends to be the standard thing. I get adorable often as well. Or I'll in a funny way say I'm adorable arent I? And humor is important is psychologically indicates your intelligence. Don't be a clown. But be charming and humorous. a girl laughing is a lot closer to a girl interested. As long as she is laughing at your humor and narrative and not at you

norwegianmorningw00d · 2017-07-24T19:49:43+00:00

Maybe instead of mysterious like don't be too blunt/ straight-forward. For example, if you're taking a girl home from the club don't say something like "let's go to my place and fuck." Instead go for something more subtle like "let's head to my place, you got to try my homemade coffee. But you have to promise me you won't try anything ;)". This tip might sound a little obvious, I don't know.

DoubleSwirl · 2017-07-24T21:24:14+00:00

Grow a beard.

danielinthebox · 2017-07-24T09:08:46+00:00

Be more aggressive. Because you are cute you can be more aggressive compared to the 6ft 300lb guy.

When I say more aggressive I mean like physically, more kino,sexual etc etc

Title	How to be a "cute" guy and seduce?
Author	themangu6
Upvotes	7
Comments	24
Date	July 24, 2017 5:07 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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