how to get physical

Professional_Base117 · 2022-08-15T16:27:55+00:00

2months? You missed it bro.Ask her over for Netflix and chill. Everybody knows what that means and she wud know too.If she comes them initiate it finally. if she doesnt wanna come over ,move on .2months is too much for woeing a woman.

dump_fool · 2022-08-15T14:54:37+00:00

You beat around the bush for 2 months ... wandering "should i take her hand" you are now an asexual guy in her view. Forget about her.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-08-15T16:19:26+00:00

Sorry mate, but if you describe your dates as therapy sessions after 2 months, it means it’s already too late.

You have positioned yourself as the go to guy to talk about problems, aka you have put yourself in the friendzone.

I think at this point it’s quite clear that she doesn’t see you in that way, and it’s your fault for acting like a “teddy bear without a penis” when she is out with a girl.

How to not be creepy? You have to be willing to cross the line to find the right balance of how sexual you can be without coming in too strong

You need to be willing to take risks, which so far you have avoided, hence why i said you act like a teddy bear without a penis.

You can start by saying things like:

“When you look at me like that, it’s so sexy”
“Damn that smile of yours is making my heart pump so fast”
“i can’t stop looking into your eyes, it’s distracting me from everything you just said”

Those are some basic risky lines to spice things up, and create sexual tension. You can also amplify that by caressing her hand, which is also risky, as again you are building sexual tension by doing that.

It’s supposed to be risky, or else there wouldn’t be any tension.

The key with creating sexual tension is that the outcome needs to be either she accepts or either she tells you to get away from her. No wushu washy stuff. You have to polarise and that means you can sometimes come across as creepy if you lack the experience to handle that tension.

Unfortunately, she is likely to be weirded out not because of the lines but because you have already positioned yourself as a friend to tell her problems to, not as a guy who hits on her.

So she is likely to quickly make it clear she doesn’t see you that way.

hookedonfonicsmunky · 2022-08-15T14:11:36+00:00

if she wants it there's absolutely no way she'll be thinking "oh this dudes creepy af" let me rephrase that ...... there's almost absolutely no way she'll be thinkin that

zapadz · 2022-08-15T14:42:40+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pjpgbomald8

swampthingonsteroids · 2022-08-15T13:59:47+00:00

Just play with her hair now and then . Feel her vibe and then make a move. Don't force it. Let it flow.

xxchhfdd35325 · 2022-08-15T16:12:39+00:00

Don’t ask learn to read the signs. Asking is a sure fire way to dry that vagina out

futuremo · 2022-08-15T16:30:21+00:00

Mark Manson has some decent cliff notes here https://dansilvestre.com/models-mark-manson/#Physicality_and_Sex , there's a whole chapter in his nook that goes into more depth.

At the end of the day though, at some point you just need to nut up, say fuck it, and just go for it man. You'll realize you were making a big deal out of nothing afterwards

Extra-Ad1405 · 2022-08-15T13:57:10+00:00

maybe a "can we do more than talk?" will help, just try it and see what happens

atomant88 · 2022-08-15T14:25:39+00:00

ask for consent. communicate like an adult.

anicknameyo · 2022-08-15T13:56:08+00:00

Communicate it, say "this might be sudden, but I would really like to kiss you, is that ok? ' Don't simply touch her out of the blue without asking

MywarUK · 2022-08-15T14:40:45+00:00

Its harder to get physical when out imo, maybe after a date go back to your place? Or if after a date you walk her home, give her a hug before she goes inside.

GotThaAcid5tab · 2022-08-15T16:48:40+00:00

Just gradually get closer in proximity once you’re butted up together that means green light for the other stuff. Thank me later.

Daygamesimplified · 2022-08-15T17:07:12+00:00

You’re in the friendzone these aren’t dates

DODI3OG · 2022-08-15T20:31:46+00:00

Just be touchy. Otherwise, if she declines, then you're probably in the friend zone. Which is okay, if you just honestly wanna be friends. But, you obviously wanna be more than that.

When you talk, just touch her arms, shoulders, head, butt, etc.

godslonelyman__ · 2022-08-15T22:38:24+00:00

"hi how are you i was thinking we could maybe go [activity] then dinner then afterwards we can go to my house and watch a film then if that gets boring maybe we can make a film"

FranciscotheBull · 2022-08-16T02:19:36+00:00

It depends on the vibe and the woman. I would say make a small move and keep going. Some want to wait. It just depends. Invite her to your place and go from there.

ImAGhostOooooooo · 2022-08-16T06:53:47+00:00

You have to take into consideration that she might've dropped hints and you missed your window. Unless she REALLY likes you, be prepared for her not to be interested anymore. There is such a thing as going too slow. For me personally, I'll break the touch barrier myself, and if the guy isn't into it then that's my hint he isn't interested in taking things further. Maybe she tried already and you didn't reciprocate?

Title	how to get physical
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Date	August 15, 2022 1:52 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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