How to get up to THEIR place?

RideTheRim · 2022-09-27T17:37:31+00:00

I’ve found that if a woman wants to fuck me she has no problem inviting to her own place or being receptive towards me inviting myself.

modidlee · 2022-09-27T18:52:34+00:00

When a woman really wants to spend some private time with you they’ll make it happen. One time I was seeing this girl and we lived almost two hours from each other. But if we both drove about 30mins we can meet up in another city. So one night at about 1am she texted me “come meet me in the city right now!!!” I had to go to work about 5am but what was I supposed to do lol. We met up at a shopping center, I got in her SUV and she drove around to the back. We climbed in the back seat and got busy. I had one eye on her and the other looking out for the cops. Moral of the story: when a woman wants to see you just let her know you’re available and she’ll suggest (or straight up tell you) how you can make that happen.

Contango6969 · 2022-09-27T15:22:14+00:00

I’ve never had problems going to girls place. I actually think it might be better like they feel more comfortable and therefore less LMR.

But then again I’m a nutcase who will use the “burn the boats” strategy so that either I get to stay with a girl or I’ll sleep in my car. It’s not so hard to ask when faced with that motivation lol

Nullroute127 · 2022-09-27T18:56:46+00:00

You have the navigate logistics. Make your dates cause her place to make sense. So, things within walking distance of her dorm/house are important.

Before pulling to her place you need to get information on:

- Does she have a private room where she lives?

- Does she have roommates that will be a problem?

Have backup plan:

- Do you have any male friends that will support you? They can offer you their place for a period of time with advanced notice. This is a BIG ask to fuck on someone else's bed, so you'll need to be clear that you're going to do laundry, etc. Also, you'll probably only want to ask friends that are tidy/keep clean so she isn't disgusted when she goes through the door.

- Are there nearby motels? (NOT ideal, but if it's what you gotta do it's what you gotta do)

- A backseat of a car

- The bathroom of the bar

punittt · 2022-09-27T20:15:48+00:00

“You should give me a tour of your apartment”

dobbs1997 · 2022-09-27T20:01:02+00:00

just suggest that you two go back to her place, depending how the date is going, if y’all are flirting and she’s receptive to that sexual energy then just say “let’s go back to your place” .

BloodMuffin · 2022-09-27T23:39:48+00:00

Offer to cook them dinner

montanalombardy · 2022-09-28T15:04:08+00:00

In my limited experience...

She may suggest that you should come over. Eg by suggesting you watch a show together or that she makes good coffee.

She may ask you to walk her home or drive her home. If she doesn't, you can offer to.

If you are bold, you can even suggest coming over. Like "Hey I can come over with a bottle of wine".

But usually the norm seems to be she imples it and expect you to offer taking her home or hanging out at her place.

Aurelius_121180 · 2022-10-05T12:05:32+00:00

It can depend on the girl tbh and how confident she is as a person. Whatever the girl is like though, I'd avoid directly asking to go back "her place" or "my place" as it's just too blunt in most cases.

Sometimes saying literally anything other than that can work. I once walked a girl back to hers, but because earlier in the night I'd suggested that we "go back to her place for drinks", she was like "oh no I'm not into hooking up". We stopped in a park near her place and started heavily making out, and when we did get back to hers, she still didn't' invite me inside. I think this was because she felt that she had to stick to her story of "I'm not hooking up tonight".

At the end of the second date with this girl, we began walking back to hers and we went into the same park where we'd made out before, in the pitch dark. At some point, because we were so close to her place I just asked if I could use her bathroom. She said "yeah sure" and let me in, then just led me upstairs and into her room and we hooked up. We had an awesome time, and I stayed over for much of the next day and we got lunch together too.

I think some girls feel a real stigma about appearing slutty/easy. Some girls have also bad experiences with guys treating them like crap after sex, and making them feel used.

In most cases, you have to give girls an 'out' like others have mentioned, I.e lets go "meet my dog", "play some cards", "write a letter to the toothfairy" - anything so that she can plausibly deny that you two are heading back to fuck - even though you both know that's exactly what you're doing.

Majestic_Meal_5655 · 2022-09-27T18:17:18+00:00

Fuxx them in the car. They love it.

cryptosis420 · 2022-09-27T19:10:58+00:00

I get a hotel room to pull girls to for the night.

Soberskate9696 · 2022-09-27T21:13:53+00:00

https://youtu.be/bmav517MQJc

Title	How to get up to THEIR place?
Author	justaboywithquestion
Upvotes	31
Comments	21
Date	September 27, 2022 2:16 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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