I go to a pretty social university that has a big frat scene. There are parties every weekend and a lot of people go out.

It was fun really early on because it was just something new. But now, I feel like it's a ridiculous amount of social strategizing and effort just to have a decent night.

For example, in order to get into parties you have to have enough girls, which already puts girls on a pedestal above you before the night has even begun. They know that you need them, and they don't need you. It's just a pain having to work with that mentality, and I'm struggling to see a way around it. I hate walking up to a random party and begging to some bro to let me in because I managed to convince a couple of chicks to walk to the porch with me. I need a change of perspective, but I'm not sure where to get it from.