My favorite method is this. When in person, suggest the date. THEN, get the number when she says yes. The date is on her mind. The number is only a means to an end.

As soon as you have a girl's number, text her right then and there. Yes, while she's with you. Then see if she got the text. Send something cheeky, like "Hey, beautiful."

Now, the first text is out of the way.

Later that night, or the next day, send her something like,

"Hey, Angela. Let's grab that drink this week. When you free?"

She gives you a schedule. "Hey! I should be free Tuesday or Thursday afternoon."

"Let's do Tuesday night."

Then you follow up with,

"Avenue at 8pm?"

"Sure! :)"

"Cya then."

":)"

It goes like this

  • Suggest date in person
  • Text her in person so the first text is out of the way
  • Next text her that day/night or next day about setting up date. Ask for schedule
  • She gives a day(s)
  • You pick one, then in a second quick follow up text, the place and time
  • She agrees
  • Confirmation text ("see you then")
  • Done.

Then, the day of, send her a text like, "Hey, see you at 8 tonight." It's better than, "hey are we still on?" Also, pro-tip. If she asks to confirm, she's SUPER into you.

Hector Castillo