How to sexualise it?

Advanced_Hedgehog427 · 2025-10-08T19:17:18+00:00

Yeah, stop having chihuahua aura

habbo311 · 2025-10-08T19:37:31+00:00

I can tell you one thing for certain. It's 100 percent your job because never in a billion years will a woman sexualize anything everrrrrrrr ( acting as if they are asexual nuns)

WebNew9978 · 2025-10-08T19:33:56+00:00

Don’t try to force the sexualization with someone. Let it happen naturally if it does. If you try forcing it, she’ll immediately lose interest and distance herself from you quickly. Gotta go with the flow.

IGotUrBrain · 2025-10-08T19:31:32+00:00

Sexual tension comes with mutual attraction. If none of them are making any moves on you or talking about sex with you then you’re gonna be a friend to all the women you associate with.

Keep in mind there’s nothing you can do or say that’ll make any woman wanna have sex with u. It’s all about mutual attraction!

Fidel__CashFl0w · 2025-10-08T19:54:30+00:00

Eye contact, attraction, leading, a bit of banter and a bit of light touching (this helps me the most)

ImpossibleWaiting · 2025-10-08T21:25:16+00:00

flirt and banter is the gist of it, eye contact is the spark

Certain_Process_7657 · 2025-10-08T21:46:48+00:00

Be direct and assertive in your initial approach. Compliment their looks right off the bat.

Make it obvious that you're not talking to her to be friends.

CoolFunnyPersona · 2025-10-09T01:33:49+00:00

I have found the sexual tension, other than obvious things you will feel, is presented and progressed by the woman. You being indifferent and not partaking in early minutia is kind of sexy for them.

There is a level of give and take, but the first 15-25 minutes are never sexual and anything that becomes is based on women's decisions. Acknowledging that I dont have to do anything other than partake in a casual conversation with nothing to prove helps my mental state and their perception of me.

norwegiandoggo · 2025-10-08T19:17:35+00:00

Are you isolating them or getting them on dates?

HigherFQNC · 2025-10-09T05:11:04+00:00

Search 'escalation ladder' in this subreddit

ModeoneUk · 2025-10-12T20:52:55+00:00

Mention sex.

Sounds like your cautious about mentioning sex to a girl otherwise you woukdnt be asling this.

Don't be fooled by social programming girls love it when you talk about sex.

Start by asking her to share your company some time this week.

Then if she agrees to share your company let her know upfront your only looking to fuck and let the cards fall where they may.

ModeoneUk · 2025-10-12T20:54:41+00:00

Look at Alan Roger Curries stuff.

There's a lot of false beliefs that harm men's ability to connect/get sex.

If you make sex an awkward topic or worried about mentioning sex then it Will more than likely never get to it.

Say "I wanna fuck you" if you have to

ModeoneUk · 2025-10-12T20:57:28+00:00

Personally bro I wouldn't listen to the other comments just grab your balls and tell her you find her attractive and you wanna fuck.

Say it in a cocky way.

Cocky and seductive way.

Promise you if you tell her you want to fuck she's think you've got giant balls which will probably attract her to you more(that is if she finds you attractive in the first place)

Title	How to sexualise it?
Author	Fluffy-Grand-4313
Upvotes	58
Comments	35
Date	October 8, 2025 7:13 PM UTC (9 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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