okay this might sound dumb but i genuinely wanna know, i feel like whenever i actually like a guy and try to show interest, i suddenly start feeling like i’m doing too much. like if i text first too often, reply fast, compliment him, or try to make plans… is that normal interest or am i looking desperate??i don’t wanna do the whole “act cold and unavailable” thing because that feels fake, but i also don’t wanna scare someone off by seeming too into them too early lolguys, what actually makes a girl come across as interested in a good way vs desperate? girls too pls help because i swear dating is confusing :((