How to text for plans.

PrettyBelowAverage · 2017-11-06T22:39:13+00:00

3 things:

1) Text early in the week and say, "Let's go to (place) at (time)" for some day that weekend or say, "Let's go to (place) on Saturday, what time can I pick you up/meet you?"

2) If you notice she's constantly texting other people when you hang out, but doesn't text you back frequently there's probably reason - either she isn't interested or wants to make you interested w/ her delayed responses

3) Don't be afraid to take time to respond, it's typically encouraged. 3x however it took them typically unless it's a back and forth conversation where both people are quickly responding. It comes off as needy when you immediately respond to their 2 day late text to you.

galactic_fury · 2017-11-07T05:48:22+00:00

No you shouldn't call. If you really wanted to hang out with a person, would you not reply to their texts within a reasonable time?

I'm sorry to say but this girl just doesn't sound that into you. Move on.

ImJustSo · 2017-11-07T01:21:03+00:00

Well, there's the extreme solution, which is to be such a powerhouse dater than you can schedule 10 dates a weekend and every flake doesn't even register, but then you're flaking on every girl but 3ish, depending on your juggling skills. In which case, you'll never be on reddit again.

There's the other extreme, where you invest all your energy into one chick and post about her specifically instead of the bigger problem.

There's also a middle ground, and you're not even close to that, but I'll let you decide where you are in the spectrum I've outlined.

Title	How to text for plans.
Author	Zoidberg22
Upvotes	10
Comments	9
Date	November 6, 2017 10:15 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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