I feel like giving up

seduction-ModTeam · 2024-07-08T01:58:48+00:00

This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities.

Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like: * How do I approach? * How do I get a number? * How do I talk to girls at college? * How/When do I kiss a girl? * Does this really work?

As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.

Equal_Actuary_5614 · 2024-07-07T19:29:11+00:00

The thing about clubs/bars is it's an environment where chads and staceys thrive. If you're not a chad, you need an x factor that can get you women. You need to have over the top charisma, talent, money, status, etc as an x factor if you're short. Even then, half of that goes out the window in loud bar/club settings, the only thing a woman can judge you off of is how you look and perhaps the vibe you give (being nervous, unhappy etc). She will reject you before u can even tell her how rich you are or how talented u are. You gotta find the environment that best suites you, and for those of us that aren't gifted with the best looks, you just gotta meet women in different settings.

gandhrav1 · 2024-07-07T18:54:19+00:00

Stop going out to bars with you friend, He is six feet and good looking....Its like if you put cabbage on one plate and pizza on other plate, which plate a hungry person will choose? So offcourse they will choose him

Either go alone or find another short friend...This way your chance will greatly improve

Silly_Randy · 2024-07-07T21:45:13+00:00

You care too much.

I'm 5'4.

I don't know about apps, coz it doesn't work for me.

But irl?

Dude. Be badass. Tyler Durden from Fight Club lol.

Go for the girls that give you obvious signs. Looking at you multiple times. Cute smiles. Give them half a smile.

And when you do go out with your boy, separate from him once in the club.

Do your own thing.

"Oh yeah I'm here with my boy, he's here somewhere, how bout you, are these your girlfriends". "You're the cutest one".

You will get the hang of it my bro. Th n you'll be drowning in pussy, posting on Reddit "how do I get a long term relationship, I just wanna settle down". Lol.

TonyDCoaching · 2024-07-08T01:01:04+00:00

I have a 5'5" friend who does amazing with women. He cold approaches a lot, like 50 girls a month minimum. You may not be as tall and good looking as your friend but with some work you can still get girls.

femoidhater91 · 2024-07-08T01:26:07+00:00

Get LL. I’m 5’9” so i fraud my height to 6’0” with lifts. I’m definitely getting a rhinoplasty and liposuction on my face and getting that fat transferred to my eye area. Also gonna hit gym.

Dry_Tune2919 · 2024-07-07T18:49:20+00:00

Good. Stop wasting time. Give up on girls for now. Go get rich instead and then come back around.

KingOnixTheThird · 2024-07-07T19:12:23+00:00

Save some money and become a passport bro.

As long as you're not chasing the 8s and 9s, you can find a decent looking filipina who'd love to go out with you.

Worth-Combination306 · 2024-07-07T21:37:11+00:00

“It’s bc your Game sucks, your height and looks don’t matter” - Reddit seduction

Lol

Make the best of what you have buddy.

TRTGymBroXXX · 2024-07-07T21:47:35+00:00

Girls go out with ugly girlfriends to make them look better. You friend is going out with to make himself look better.

If I remember correctly though, you were a nerdy Asian guy and he was all tattooed and super cool. So yeah, give up when you haven’t even tried doing g anything to make yourself more desirable.

Jironasaurus · 2024-07-07T22:22:39+00:00

The shorter you are, the more your personality will need to make up for it. Be larger than life.

SnooHesitations4922 · 2024-07-07T19:56:14+00:00

You don't need to give up.

You need to change the environment.

You show up to a bar with a tall guy. You compare dating app results with a tall guy.

You are judging yourself based on stuff that can't be changed. Bar girls and girls on apps are used to getting dick from their exact type. The whole point of girls going to bars and using apps is to find a specific type of guy physically that they have pictured in their mind and will have a guard up towards everyone else.

In these environments you will keep yourself in a downward spiral.

You can hang out and socialize at a flea market or a barns & noble or any environment that isn't specifically designed for 304s and get completely different results. Your tall friend just might be the one getting eyes rolled at him in these scenarios.

Title	I feel like giving up
Author	RyanT321
Upvotes	9
Comments	24
Date	July 7, 2024 6:32 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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